I read the first two lines, skimmed to 'im confused, and im sure u are now too' and just started nodding :)
Lifes needs are very few, food, water, love, lifes wants are many. I can't really grasp what you're talking about but whatever it is you must to some degree be able to decide whether the results of your actions pertaining to it will result in good or bad. Having said that sometimes you do have to wing it and let go, recently I've written and said harsh words to very close friends, words that could have convinced them to turn around and tell me they never wanted to see me again, luckily they didn't.
If you are true to yourself and make decisions based on this you have to take the chance that something will fall to hell, you need to then pick yourself up and move on, that is life, many decisions are going to be on a knife edge and can go either way, but you need to make those decisions.
I don't really know if with major decisions in your life there is wrong or right, maybe it's more aptly put as better and worse, because no matter where you find yourself a decision had to be made and now you have to deal with the consequences and just hope you have learned something along the way.
You can't read the future, just write it down as best you can what for you is pro and con with each situation, it sounds selfish but this is about you and no-one else, give yourself time to think about, make a decision and have true heartfelt belief that the decision you have made is the correct one.
PJ it's been very beat around the bush but I hope someone in my thesis you find some help and that you make the 'right' decision, you're a great guy and I sincerely hope things work out for you -HUGS-
Lifes needs are very few, food, water, love, lifes wants are many. I can't really grasp what you're talking about but whatever it is you must to some degree be able to decide whether the results of your actions pertaining to it will result in good or bad. Having said that sometimes you do have to wing it and let go, recently I've written and said harsh words to very close friends, words that could have convinced them to turn around and tell me they never wanted to see me again, luckily they didn't.
If you are true to yourself and make decisions based on this you have to take the chance that something will fall to hell, you need to then pick yourself up and move on, that is life, many decisions are going to be on a knife edge and can go either way, but you need to make those decisions.
I don't really know if with major decisions in your life there is wrong or right, maybe it's more aptly put as better and worse, because no matter where you find yourself a decision had to be made and now you have to deal with the consequences and just hope you have learned something along the way.
You can't read the future, just write it down as best you can what for you is pro and con with each situation, it sounds selfish but this is about you and no-one else, give yourself time to think about, make a decision and have true heartfelt belief that the decision you have made is the correct one.
PJ it's been very beat around the bush but I hope someone in my thesis you find some help and that you make the 'right' decision, you're a great guy and I sincerely hope things work out for you -HUGS-
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do i leave the man i love and have loved for over two years? hehehe hard question.
can i stand him, do i really want to live with him anymore, and if so or not, then why?
i believe i know the answer now, after much debating with him, that being my problem. finally debating with myself, and myself alone, ive decided.
PJ <3
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