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Okay so I know the format of this is super annoying and I PROMISE PROMISE PROMISE i'm gonna change it asap. Here's our two topics for today: Why men can't communicate and therefore fuck up everything.
Heres my ISSUE with men. They refuse to communicate. Many of us women don't fall into the black or white categories men feel comfortable placing us in, a lot of us live in the grey area where men always are but they don't believe we can be there too. What I mean is we don't want either a lovingly obsessive completely serious on the track to the rest of our lives together relationship or sex with absolutely no feelings that treats the other person like a sex toy and involves no human emotion. Many of us want to really get to know and care about someone and see where things go and don't long for absolute commitment in college but men don't believe we could feel that way and force us into one of the two horrible categories listed above that prevents us from being nice to you for fear that you'll put us in the needs a relationship category and will stop contacting us. Just because we can have an actual convo and want to know how your day is and remember that you had an exam today and made sure to wish you luck doesn't mean we want to be your one and only it just means we are smart nice girls who want to act out the friends part of friends with benefits. Stop being ridic and man up! Ask us what we want, we'll tell you. Remember men when you assume you make an ass out of u and .....well really you just make an ass out of you but who doesn't love a good old saying.
As for my situation this weekend I plan to keep it in check and move on and move up because the reality of the situation is when I weighed out what I brought to the table and what he brought to the table it looked more like dinner for one. The joy of men however always has been and remains that they're actions are delayed so c'est la vie see you in the spring when you wake up and see what you lost I'll already be on to the next because like most girls I'm never solo for long but with your attitude noone is going to buy what you're selling. Games get boring and nothing substantial can result from smoke and mirrors so goodbye and good luck.
Stay lovely ladies and independent and always remember we are SO young and theres always someone else waiting around the corner so don't waste your time, just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on just like tupac told you to.
Heres my ISSUE with men. They refuse to communicate. Many of us women don't fall into the black or white categories men feel comfortable placing us in, a lot of us live in the grey area where men always are but they don't believe we can be there too. What I mean is we don't want either a lovingly obsessive completely serious on the track to the rest of our lives together relationship or sex with absolutely no feelings that treats the other person like a sex toy and involves no human emotion. Many of us want to really get to know and care about someone and see where things go and don't long for absolute commitment in college but men don't believe we could feel that way and force us into one of the two horrible categories listed above that prevents us from being nice to you for fear that you'll put us in the needs a relationship category and will stop contacting us. Just because we can have an actual convo and want to know how your day is and remember that you had an exam today and made sure to wish you luck doesn't mean we want to be your one and only it just means we are smart nice girls who want to act out the friends part of friends with benefits. Stop being ridic and man up! Ask us what we want, we'll tell you. Remember men when you assume you make an ass out of u and .....well really you just make an ass out of you but who doesn't love a good old saying.
As for my situation this weekend I plan to keep it in check and move on and move up because the reality of the situation is when I weighed out what I brought to the table and what he brought to the table it looked more like dinner for one. The joy of men however always has been and remains that they're actions are delayed so c'est la vie see you in the spring when you wake up and see what you lost I'll already be on to the next because like most girls I'm never solo for long but with your attitude noone is going to buy what you're selling. Games get boring and nothing substantial can result from smoke and mirrors so goodbye and good luck.
Stay lovely ladies and independent and always remember we are SO young and theres always someone else waiting around the corner so don't waste your time, just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on just like tupac told you to.