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Good thing I don't believe these; there is nothing positive about the results on this quiz at all so I'm not even sure why I am posting it. I guess it struck a chord on the "people date you because you are hot" part. The guy I went on a date with a few weeks ago but I decided I didn't like said he wouldn't date one of my friends because he wasn't attracted to her because he likes "skinny girls with big butts." (she is beautiful, but has a larger frame-it's not like he was mr. buff himself though) So, basically that sunk his chances for ever going out on a date with me again or dating any of our friends, lol. No one wants to date a shallow guy.
I hate the battle between wanting to look nice and then not knowing why a guy likes me. It's not like I'm even that cute; it must really be a problem for girls who are gorgeous. It still doesn't bother me enough to not care what I look like though, lol, I like to look nice. There is just such a difference in how people treat you based on how you look-it's sad but true. When I go out in glasses without makeup, with my hair pulled up and wear a big t-shirt and old baggy pants, people treat me differently. They don't see me as someone who cares what they look like, has good self-esteem and is deserving of their attention and respect. Don't get me wrong, there is a line between wanting to look good and wanting to look sexy and attracting the wrong kind of attention. Guys have no idea how hard it is for a girl to decide what to wear. We don't mean to send some of the messages we do at times. You can't understand how much we are judged by our appearance. Well, that's my spill for the day. Guys, treat girls like a real person regardless of what they are dressing like. It makes a world of difference how you treat us. "Beauty is fleeting and charm is deceitful, but a woman who fears the Lord is worthy of praise."
I hate the battle between wanting to look nice and then not knowing why a guy likes me. It's not like I'm even that cute; it must really be a problem for girls who are gorgeous. It still doesn't bother me enough to not care what I look like though, lol, I like to look nice. There is just such a difference in how people treat you based on how you look-it's sad but true. When I go out in glasses without makeup, with my hair pulled up and wear a big t-shirt and old baggy pants, people treat me differently. They don't see me as someone who cares what they look like, has good self-esteem and is deserving of their attention and respect. Don't get me wrong, there is a line between wanting to look good and wanting to look sexy and attracting the wrong kind of attention. Guys have no idea how hard it is for a girl to decide what to wear. We don't mean to send some of the messages we do at times. You can't understand how much we are judged by our appearance. Well, that's my spill for the day. Guys, treat girls like a real person regardless of what they are dressing like. It makes a world of difference how you treat us. "Beauty is fleeting and charm is deceitful, but a woman who fears the Lord is worthy of praise."