Should I worry?
Ok, I met a guy at a wedding a few weeks ago and we have been talking on the phone fairly often. We have only had casual conversations and stuff, he has never talked about pursuing a relationship with me or anything, we just enjoy talking to each other. Well, the other night I thought he said "bye sweetie" when he said goodbye, but I figured he just slipped and it was an so I didn't confront him about it or anything. Well, he did it again tonight and I don't know what to do!! Should I confront him and ask him why he called me sweetie or just continue to ignore it? I mean, I guess I should say something, but i have no idea what to say with out being rude. I think he is a nice guy and all, we get along fine on the phone and stuff, but I honestly just don't know about being anything more than friends with him or anyone right now. I don't want to be stupid and "play the field" or anything like that, but I really don't want to start any kind of relationship right now. Although I'm still not a stellar friend, I think I keep in touch with other friends better when I'm not seeing anyone. I'm not ready to plan my life around anyone. I'm using this time to really decide who I want to be without any one guy shaping that too much. It is easy when you are close to someone to look at their views and life choices and mesh them with your own instead of truly seeking God's will and letting him shape you into what He wants you to be. We really underestimate the influence of others on our lives. I have now been around enough examples of people who are and people who aren't what I want to be like. I want to be sure I surround myself with people who will spur me to be more like Christ in so many ways. I want to be a harder worker, but not caught up in my work so that I loose sight of the purpose of what I'm working towards. This isnt the place I need to sort out my thoughts of what I want to be. I totally got over my worries about Tal quite quickly I see, lol. I guess I should give it to God and let Him guide me. That's a no brainer right there. If I only had a brain...hehehe.