life event:
last night I politely said no to a stranger who asked me to dance, and struck up conversation with the cute DJ. Being able to say no, on the spot, alone, in public has always been really difficult for me. I was having the greatest time being out by myself dancing, it was the best feeling. So much of my life I've been so anxious in public I couldn't have a good time, it feels like such a victory. Rarely does nothing go wrong/no one get in my face about something, so a night without that felt so good.