1. We spend more time with others than alone - We've seen my friends because of birthday parties and we've been invited places for group things. If your friends hung out with you , I'd have no problem hanging out with them. I'm a people person, but that dosen't mean I don't like spending the day just with you. I liked the lacrosse games for example, renting movies, going to the park to play lacrosse, going to denny's together, getting waterice. sometimes u even want to call ppl tho cuz we dont know what to do or cuz we are bored. but 4 of my friends birthdays are in May & I told you after May, birthdays would stop. And it's hard when we both work Monday through Thursday and you have off during the week when I don't, but I'm willing to work on it.
2. When we are alone others interupt us (ie. asking to hang out, seeing what your up to, or making plans for the next day) - I can't help if my cell phone rings. Your's goes off when we are down in the basement, I don't care. I can't control phone calls. For now on, if we make plans and someone calls I'll say I'm busy. But I can still make plans with them for another day.
3. Plans are never made in advance with me b/c I'm told to take it a day at a time (yet plans are made with friends in advance) - What happened with the shore sucks and I told you I'm sorry about that, but that was my Dad not letting me go, not me. You know I would of stayed if i could. And I never make plans in advance with my friends, I never know what I'm doing from day to day. that's just who i am. u dont have to be like that, its cool. but its just me.
You say you "love me" but then say "love sucks" Like yeah we are going to have arguments but if the arguments make you hate love, then why are you with me if it's making u so sad/angry and if it gets u to the point where you hate our relationship, who i am, and the problems involved in a relationship? just like life, nobody said it was going to be easy. like life, a relationship takes work and problem solving. the problems aren't going to be solved all at once, within a month. I started by deleting my myspace for you, something that took a lot for me to do. Now I got a raise and am needed at work more, and am trying to work my life around your schedule, plus make my family and everone else happy. and enjoy summer b4 i have to start going to school from 8-11 and work from 12-5. it's not that easy but im trying, it will get better. i know i'm not perfect but i also know that i do try, sometimes i feel like no matter what i do its never good enough. dont get me wrong if there was some way i could of worked today for you so you could go to the game today i would of, i felt bad about that for you. and it sucks that you have to work a lot this summer, but what happened in the past is the past, and now you are bettering your future. and you cant compare yourself to those around you who dont work and aren't going to school. almost every college kid and/or teen who goes to summer school and works the whole summer just like you are. your not the only one who works during the summer. and i haven't talked to one person yet who's enjoyed summer, and summer has hardly even started. i only got out of school about 3 weeks ago. but i'll make sure you have a decent summer just relax
- We've seen my friends because of birthday parties and we've been invited places for group things. If your friends hung out with you , I'd have no problem hanging out with them. I'm a people person, but that dosen't mean I don't like spending the day just with you. I liked the lacrosse games for example, renting movies, going to the park to play lacrosse, going to denny's together, getting waterice. sometimes u even want to call ppl tho cuz we dont know what to do or cuz we are bored. but 4 of my friends birthdays are in May & I told you after May, birthdays would stop. And it's hard when we both work Monday through Thursday and you have off during the week when I don't, but I'm willing to work on it.
2. When we are alone others interupt us (ie. asking to hang out, seeing what your up to, or making plans for the next day)
- I can't help if my cell phone rings. Your's goes off when we are down in the basement, I don't care. I can't control phone calls. For now on, if we make plans and someone calls I'll say I'm busy. But I can still make plans with them for another day.
3. Plans are never made in advance with me b/c I'm told to take it a day at a time (yet plans are made with friends in advance)
- What happened with the shore sucks and I told you I'm sorry about that, but that was my Dad not letting me go, not me. You know I would of stayed if i could. And I never make plans in advance with my friends, I never know what I'm doing from day to day. that's just who i am. u dont have to be like that, its cool. but its just me.
You say you "love me" but then say "love sucks" Like yeah we are going to have arguments but if the arguments make you hate love, then why are you with me if it's making u so sad/angry and if it gets u to the point where you hate our relationship, who i am, and the problems involved in a relationship? just like life, nobody said it was going to be easy. like life, a relationship takes work and problem solving. the problems aren't going to be solved all at once, within a month. I started by deleting my myspace for you, something that took a lot for me to do. Now I got a raise and am needed at work more, and am trying to work my life around your schedule, plus make my family and everone else happy. and enjoy summer b4 i have to start going to school from 8-11 and work from 12-5. it's not that easy but im trying, it will get better. i know i'm not perfect but i also know that i do try, sometimes i feel like no matter what i do its never good enough. dont get me wrong if there was some way i could of worked today for you so you could go to the game today i would of, i felt bad about that for you. and it sucks that you have to work a lot this summer, but what happened in the past is the past, and now you are bettering your future. and you cant compare yourself to those around you who dont work and aren't going to school. almost every college kid and/or teen who goes to summer school and works the whole summer just like you are. your not the only one who works during the summer. and i haven't talked to one person yet who's enjoyed summer, and summer has hardly even started. i only got out of school about 3 weeks ago. but i'll make sure you have a decent summer just relax
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