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Sometimes I just don't understand how people can be so dumb, and empty minded.
For one thing, sometimes you need to learn to grow up and get over things
Anger does not make something right. It does not help a situation.
If you cannot have a decent mature conversation with somebody, then you seriously need to work on your skills.
Second.
Some people really need to take time to self reflect.
My sister for instance. She had one baby, quit smoking during the pregnany because it is required.
So she is pregnant again and was okay with quitting. I now find out she started again, and is still pregnant. Im sorry, but if you are that stressed over something, get a different hobby. She is putting her baby in danger and she knows it. Than, my mother, goes out with her today and lights up a cigarrette. I say, mom you cant smoke that around erin, shes pregnant. And she says, it doesnt matter she started smoking again (which is how i found out in the first place) so there you go again. She is the MOTHER, it doesnt matter what her daughter does, it doesnt mean its okay for her to do it too. If she wants to be the mother to my sister the adult thing to do would be not to join in it, and try to discourage it. Im going to have a talk with her when she gets home. Lately I feel like i am my mothers mother.
Last night Joey stuck a butter knife in his mouth. I pulled it away, he whined and so my mother gave it back to him. .... im sorry? did i miss something?
So i told her, if i was the one to have given it back she would have pulled away. She has to be super grandmom though.
she tells me the knife is dull enough, its okay.
ITS A KNIFE. i dont care how dull it is, a baby should not be sticking any thing in his mouth besides food.
She is ridiculous. Shes losing herself. Shes depressed about things she could fix if she just had the motivation to do it. Instead she would rather complain. Gee i wonder where i get it from. Still, common sense has been lacking around here.
The drunk is not moving out either.
So what am I going to do?
If things dont turn around here, im moving to either my sisters or brothers.
My brother and Carol are the only ones that see eye to eye with me and my mothers situation.
I just can't believe how dumb one can be about these things.
They need to take a step back and look at what their doing to themselves and the lives of others around them.
I need a change.
I need a new job
and some new clothes.
oh yeah, joe is on the way to the hospital...he stuck lots of spagetti up his nose...
if he wasnt 2...id be worried.