Oct 13, 2005 09:10
I am about to embark on another journey in my life. I am moving in with my girlfriend, I am excited and nervous, but that is what comes with a new life change. I am really happy about the decision I am making, but I dont expect everyone to jump for joy, but some positive words would be welcomed.
I appreciate the honesty my friends have and definitely wouldnt want it any other way it has made me a stronger person, but on the other hand I would like to know that I have thier support even though they might not agree with my decisions in life. The jokes and critisim that comes with this particular situation, I take with a grain of salt, but after awhile it begins to wear on me, I feel that no one believes in love anymore.
We have all been hurt, I think this is my fifth girlfriend not that I am counting..lol...and at first I admit it, I got way freaked out, but I realized something, we had chemistry together and that I needed to see if this could be something great. Moving in with her is just the next step in the prgression of what I feel is right for her and I. Maybe it is to soon or maybe it isnt, but who sets those standards. I didnt get that handbook that says step two - wait 1 yr. before moving in...I have been on both sides of this argument, I have waited a long time before moving in with someone and I have moved in with someone in a short period of time. Obviously, none of those relatiships lasted and it was not due to the fact we moved in with each other.