Seriously.
Taking the lead from a trustworthy friend or co-worker is a smart idea today, for he or she won't likely steer you wrong. Normally you wouldn't let anyone else make decisions for you, but now your unfulfilled desires could negatively influence your ability to choose wisely. Just remember that receiving advice doesn't alleviate you of the final authority. Ultimately, you are the one who must walk down the path- you take.