Apr 17, 2004 18:03
Today at actually feels like spring!!! God I love the warm weather. Everything feels so much better when the weather is nice... although something happened that put my mood in a completely different place. My Dad made a comment about my sisters weight... When I was in the hot tub my sister asked my mom "when did it start being ok to make fun of my weight?" and she got very teary eyed. I felt so bad. Then she said, "I just didnt realize I was fat." SHES NOT FAT!! I feel so bad. My dad really shouldnt have said anything. Lauren has been having self confidence problems for some time now. She didnt need to hear anything from my dad. So when my mom tried to get my dad to appolagize lauren ran to the top of our driveway, called her bf on her cell phone and he picked her up. She was really upset. I feel so bad. Things like that are really hurtful and my dad doesnt get that. I dont think he really understands that what he did was wrong. There is no reason to say anything about the way lauren looks. If lauren doesnt like it she will change it. He thinks she should at least know shes overweight. Shes not overweight at all... It was wrong of him and he doesnt get that. I dont know... I just feel really bad. Just a message to all the guys out there; even if you may have an opinion like that about a girl, dont say it outlowd. You can think it all you want but its not necessary to mention. It wont help anything. Most guys dont understand how a comment like that can effect a girl. Its really hurtful. So keep it to yourself.