A clearer post, and ponderations
On last nights emopost..
Last night, the conversation happened in which it was decided that was it, it wasn't working, my girlfriend and I are no more. I'm living there as a lodger, nothing more, and I'm not gonna be kicked out on the street, but I obviously can't stay there indefinitely.
I have a few months to get some money behind me, get my shit together, etc etc.
What I need to do now, is work out what I'm gonna do, where I'm gonna go.
There's not really anything tying me to where I am right now, but thats where I've focussed my jobhunting because obviously thats where I planned to live.
I've poked some london type work, and if i get the GOOD one, then I'll potentially have the money to rent something small.
but technically, if I wanted to go somewhere else, now would be the time, whether that be birmingham, basingstoke, or scotland... I don't have a job, a relationship or a house to tie me anywhere.
I'm not sure if I should look for work elsewhere, and let that steer where I live, or look for somewhere to live and let that steer where I look for work.
How does one pick which way to do it, how does one decide where to live etc? Its never really been an issue before.
Last night, the conversation happened in which it was decided that was it, it wasn't working, my girlfriend and I are no more. I'm living there as a lodger, nothing more, and I'm not gonna be kicked out on the street, but I obviously can't stay there indefinitely.
I have a few months to get some money behind me, get my shit together, etc etc.
What I need to do now, is work out what I'm gonna do, where I'm gonna go.
There's not really anything tying me to where I am right now, but thats where I've focussed my jobhunting because obviously thats where I planned to live.
I've poked some london type work, and if i get the GOOD one, then I'll potentially have the money to rent something small.
but technically, if I wanted to go somewhere else, now would be the time, whether that be birmingham, basingstoke, or scotland... I don't have a job, a relationship or a house to tie me anywhere.
I'm not sure if I should look for work elsewhere, and let that steer where I live, or look for somewhere to live and let that steer where I look for work.
How does one pick which way to do it, how does one decide where to live etc? Its never really been an issue before.