I guess these are for megans research paper thing. (feel special.. you made me update for the first time in a long time)
mate selelction in young adulthood
Questions are:
~How old are you?`
-18
~What issues are important to you at this time in your life?~
-solidity and stability. well balanced like the boobs on Francine Dee....just not as fake.
my future and dumb stuff liek that..stuff that parents always tell you to be more focused on when you were younger but you never did cuz all you ever wanted to do was have fun.
~Is finding a life-long mate one of them?~
-its always a side thing.. I'll find it sooner or later
~What are some qualities that you look for in someone you are interested in?~
-1. strong common sense and analytical..(can figure things out for herself. Not like the dumbass customers that come into my store.. those assholes that dont know how to stand in line..and automatically think that when 2 people are behind the counter 2 registers are open..grrr.)
2. not a bitch
3. considerate, sweet, thoughtful
4. sensitive but rational
5. doesnt have a mustache
6. plays videogames
7. doesnt watch stupid movies... (like Titanic, A beautiful Mind, Godsford Park, Gladiator, Royal Tenenbaums, the crying game. All movies that got rave reviews..all overrated..alllll stupid.)
8. watches cool movies (like Donnie Darko, Evil Dead, Requiem for a Dream, Dead or Alive, Scratch, Clerks, Chasing Amy, Six String Samurai, Battle Royale, Cannibal Ferox (for the gore))
8. doesnt find "feardotcom" a scary movie..cuz I know alot of girls that think that movie is scary. read my review...here
http://www.livejournal.com/users/flakernate/day/2002/08/31
9. lacks in cooking abilities.. I always find that funny (and cute)... I can also cook for them..gain some points ya know..
10. can tolerate me listening to Eazy-E and Meshuggah back 2 back
11. can tell the differences between 'at the drive in' and 'sparta'
~Anything in specific that you feel is neccessary in a life-long companion?~
-making sure its not just infatuation before you take that next step. I see tunnel vision couples all over the place playing grab ass with eachother at the mall and dont know who the fuck the person they're dating are. they fall inlove with eachothers first impression facade and seem to jsut be mesmerized by it and overlook the imperfections. Pretty soon the facade fades and you see the dents of the imperfections in your partner and become annoyed.
Thats why couples who start living with eachother or spend alot of time together dont tend to last... you get to know them too well and clouds of mystery reveal nothing but the reasons to keep that cloud from dissapating, the imperfections.
Ok I got off track. Umm...love is necessary in lifelong companionship ofcourse..cuz imperfection doesnt fade that muthafucka (yes I cussed to not sound so cheesy)
also with the right person..imperfections make the relationships alot more funner... I mean..with the right person that would be love I guess.. and you wouldnt mind if they snored at night or whatever. People see imperfections as a bad thing but I find that the best part in a strong relationship.. cuz you get to know stuff about someone that noone else gets to know.. I mean thats like total connection right there yo.... tight like a kite
~What would turn you away from someone?~
-complaining, constant cussing, constant shittalk
Women: Does the scent of a man have anything to do with your feelings towards him?
~Men: What do you value most? Honestly? ~
-I value everything I havnt lost. And hot chocolate double fudge brownies topped with vanilla icecream.
materialistically... my dvd's and my cd's
relationship wise... dependabiltiy, honesty, stuff and stuff..a girl that can make you feel like you're the dopest person in the world and all the honeys want you but all you want is her. And all the player haters want her and all she wants is you. Yea those kind of girls are dope... we all want relationships like that no doubt.
List: ranking from highest to lowest of importance in a relationship, or prospective mate
Mutual Attraction (love)
Dependable Character
Emotional Stability
Pleasing Disposition
Maturity
Chastity
Questions are:
~How old are you?`
-18
~What issues are important to you at this time in your life?~
-solidity and stability. well balanced like the boobs on Francine Dee....just not as fake.
my future and dumb stuff liek that..stuff that parents always tell you to be more focused on when you were younger but you never did cuz all you ever wanted to do was have fun.
~Is finding a life-long mate one of them?~
-its always a side thing.. I'll find it sooner or later
~What are some qualities that you look for in someone you are interested in?~
-1. strong common sense and analytical..(can figure things out for herself. Not like the dumbass customers that come into my store.. those assholes that dont know how to stand in line..and automatically think that when 2 people are behind the counter 2 registers are open..grrr.)
2. not a bitch
3. considerate, sweet, thoughtful
4. sensitive but rational
5. doesnt have a mustache
6. plays videogames
7. doesnt watch stupid movies... (like Titanic, A beautiful Mind, Godsford Park, Gladiator, Royal Tenenbaums, the crying game. All movies that got rave reviews..all overrated..alllll stupid.)
8. watches cool movies (like Donnie Darko, Evil Dead, Requiem for a Dream, Dead or Alive, Scratch, Clerks, Chasing Amy, Six String Samurai, Battle Royale, Cannibal Ferox (for the gore))
8. doesnt find "feardotcom" a scary movie..cuz I know alot of girls that think that movie is scary. read my review...here
http://www.livejournal.com/users/flakernate/day/2002/08/31
9. lacks in cooking abilities.. I always find that funny (and cute)... I can also cook for them..gain some points ya know..
10. can tolerate me listening to Eazy-E and Meshuggah back 2 back
11. can tell the differences between 'at the drive in' and 'sparta'
~Anything in specific that you feel is neccessary in a life-long companion?~
-making sure its not just infatuation before you take that next step. I see tunnel vision couples all over the place playing grab ass with eachother at the mall and dont know who the fuck the person they're dating are. they fall inlove with eachothers first impression facade and seem to jsut be mesmerized by it and overlook the imperfections. Pretty soon the facade fades and you see the dents of the imperfections in your partner and become annoyed.
Thats why couples who start living with eachother or spend alot of time together dont tend to last... you get to know them too well and clouds of mystery reveal nothing but the reasons to keep that cloud from dissapating, the imperfections.
Ok I got off track. Umm...love is necessary in lifelong companionship ofcourse..cuz imperfection doesnt fade that muthafucka (yes I cussed to not sound so cheesy)
also with the right person..imperfections make the relationships alot more funner... I mean..with the right person that would be love I guess.. and you wouldnt mind if they snored at night or whatever. People see imperfections as a bad thing but I find that the best part in a strong relationship.. cuz you get to know stuff about someone that noone else gets to know.. I mean thats like total connection right there yo.... tight like a kite
~What would turn you away from someone?~
-complaining, constant cussing, constant shittalk
Women: Does the scent of a man have anything to do with your feelings towards him?
~Men: What do you value most? Honestly? ~
-I value everything I havnt lost. And hot chocolate double fudge brownies topped with vanilla icecream.
materialistically... my dvd's and my cd's
relationship wise... dependabiltiy, honesty, stuff and stuff..a girl that can make you feel like you're the dopest person in the world and all the honeys want you but all you want is her. And all the player haters want her and all she wants is you. Yea those kind of girls are dope... we all want relationships like that no doubt.
List: ranking from highest to lowest of importance in a relationship, or prospective mate
Mutual Attraction (love)
Dependable Character
Emotional Stability
Pleasing Disposition
Maturity
Chastity