So.... If anyone who read this actually knew me IRL, they would know that I did a brief stint as a bondage model. I was working primarily with one guy, from a site called Hunters Lair. He in the past has hooked me up with other producers to work with them as well, but when Bri & I broke up in January, that all kinda stopped. I had my own site too, but what with the computer offline & movin in with Dad, etc, I pretty much gave it all up. SOo.... Jim just called me. This guy Pete wants to work with me soon. Derek & I have never talked about the subject - b/c I had pretty much given it up since I got together with him. Now I want to go do this, b/c I could make $300 for a half day's work - which is almost a full week's pay for me - if I did it. But I'm pretty sure he'd have a big problem with it. If nothing else, he'd want to go, and Pete doesn't allow male escorts and I can't promise he wouldn't be a problem. *sigh* So do I go do it and not tell him and hope I don't come back with marks or slip up and say something.... or do I ask him and risk not being able to do it and thereby losing $$? Or do I tell him rather than ask him and risk making him mad? I don't know what to do -- if you're reading this, I need advice badly. Please help.