Long days
Well, I'm trying to update this thing more often so that anyone who cares will know what's going on in my life. I have decided that weddings are just a big hassle. I don't know why anyone would want to go through with one. Because it's "my day?" Please. My day is the day after the wedding, the day when the stress of standing in front of a large number of people is over, the day when questions about wedding cakes, flowers, reception areas, ministers, and dresses is over, the day when I can get away from my esentric family, change my name, and start my new life. That will be MY day. The craziness of weddings? That's for the family. So they can say "It was so beautiful!" or "Teresa was in a dress!" And I know regardless of how sure I am of this marriage, there's gonna be butterflies doing riverdance in my stomach that day. I will spend most of the day feeling ill from the stress of the day. I will be nervous cause I'll have to stand infront of everyone and be the ultimate center of attention, I will be anxious cause I'll want everything to go off without a hitch, the food prepared right, decorations looking good...ya know, all the last minute things that everyone worries about, and I will be downright nauseous and panicky cause I just won't wanna go through the whole ordeal. Someone will probably hear me shout "Grab a justice of the peace and meet me outside Chip!"
The reason I'm ranting about wedding stuff is cause my mom and I will be shopping for a wedding dress today. *Sigh* You'll never guess where we're going. The local thrift shop. Hey, anyone that knows me knows that I'll go out of my way to find a good deal. And according to my mom (who volunteers there fairly regularly) says that girls come in all too often cause the wedding got cancelled not to be rescheduled and the girls bring in gowns that are $2,000+ that are being sold for $100. Not a bad deal if you ask me. And if that doesn't work then my mom says there's a good place in Wilmington that we'll have to check out. Fun. I don't like shopping and I particularly don't like shopping for dresses. *sigh*
And as if there isn't enough for me to be stressful about, check out prezcartman's lastest entry. His parents accept but don't approve of the marriage. They have to be "convinced" and we have to give valid reasons as to why we are doing this. Like anything they have to counter will really change our minds. This is the only time you'll ever hear me say this but they should be like my parents and just be happy for us and help us start planning.
Well, I really should get back to work so I'll rant more about this later I'm sure.
The reason I'm ranting about wedding stuff is cause my mom and I will be shopping for a wedding dress today. *Sigh* You'll never guess where we're going. The local thrift shop. Hey, anyone that knows me knows that I'll go out of my way to find a good deal. And according to my mom (who volunteers there fairly regularly) says that girls come in all too often cause the wedding got cancelled not to be rescheduled and the girls bring in gowns that are $2,000+ that are being sold for $100. Not a bad deal if you ask me. And if that doesn't work then my mom says there's a good place in Wilmington that we'll have to check out. Fun. I don't like shopping and I particularly don't like shopping for dresses. *sigh*
And as if there isn't enough for me to be stressful about, check out prezcartman's lastest entry. His parents accept but don't approve of the marriage. They have to be "convinced" and we have to give valid reasons as to why we are doing this. Like anything they have to counter will really change our minds. This is the only time you'll ever hear me say this but they should be like my parents and just be happy for us and help us start planning.
Well, I really should get back to work so I'll rant more about this later I'm sure.