Random thinking...
I hate stubborn people. People who are just so set on how they think...and theres no other way of thinking or viewing a situation.
and since when did we all get such screwed up views on relationships?...I dont get it...Im not sure what went wrong? Everyone's so afraid of getting hurt to where it immbolizes them in relationships and in the end they only hurt themselves. cuz that no way to live, always loving and leaving..not only loving one person..even if it does mean the giving them the power to hurt you..you just have to be wise..and careful about who you're w/ and just really wait and hold out and dont go throwing your heart around to every cute guy who says he likes you. I dunno. mabey my opinion will change on this..who knows. I SURE DONT lol this is just my random thoughts that built up today. BUt someone told me once that they heard a quote then went a little something like this "it takes true maturity for someone to open their arms to someone and have them spit in their faces w/ rejection..and for them to move on to the next person and open their arms to them like they always would" and i totally agree cuz eveyone now in days punishes eachother in relationships cuz of wht their ex did to them. i had that experience awhile go w/ a guy..he had a heartbreaking relationship like a yr. b4 and he was dead set he was not gunna let me in liek he did w/ her cuz he was so scared of getting hurt..and because of him doing tht it was 1/2 the reason it never worked cuz id let him in..but he wouldnt let me in! an it frusterated me to no end cuz our relationship only went so far and tht was it...cuz he would just open himself up to me and let me be BECCA not his ex who hurt him. & so many ppl do tht now..cuz they've been hurt in the past they are SURE that it wont happen again & they wont let it cuz they arent gunna let anyone one. and for all thye know they keep pushing and pushing great ppl out of their lives because of it!
I dunno mabey this is my naive point of view.and mabey b y next yr ill read this and laugh at how naive i was...but i dunno this is my opinion right now. I dont wanna be bitter and cynical towards all men just cuzi got hurt once. Instead im just gunna let it make me more careful next time. im just gunna pick wisely and remember my worth b4 i give my heart away. but i wont hold back once i find the guy God has for me. i will love like i have never b4. no matter if its the 2nd..or 1st or 4th time...cuz its a NEW relationship and a new chance at a successful one.
so ok..im gunna go to bed lol
GnigHT!
and since when did we all get such screwed up views on relationships?...I dont get it...Im not sure what went wrong? Everyone's so afraid of getting hurt to where it immbolizes them in relationships and in the end they only hurt themselves. cuz that no way to live, always loving and leaving..not only loving one person..even if it does mean the giving them the power to hurt you..you just have to be wise..and careful about who you're w/ and just really wait and hold out and dont go throwing your heart around to every cute guy who says he likes you. I dunno. mabey my opinion will change on this..who knows. I SURE DONT lol this is just my random thoughts that built up today. BUt someone told me once that they heard a quote then went a little something like this "it takes true maturity for someone to open their arms to someone and have them spit in their faces w/ rejection..and for them to move on to the next person and open their arms to them like they always would" and i totally agree cuz eveyone now in days punishes eachother in relationships cuz of wht their ex did to them. i had that experience awhile go w/ a guy..he had a heartbreaking relationship like a yr. b4 and he was dead set he was not gunna let me in liek he did w/ her cuz he was so scared of getting hurt..and because of him doing tht it was 1/2 the reason it never worked cuz id let him in..but he wouldnt let me in! an it frusterated me to no end cuz our relationship only went so far and tht was it...cuz he would just open himself up to me and let me be BECCA not his ex who hurt him. & so many ppl do tht now..cuz they've been hurt in the past they are SURE that it wont happen again & they wont let it cuz they arent gunna let anyone one. and for all thye know they keep pushing and pushing great ppl out of their lives because of it!
I dunno mabey this is my naive point of view.and mabey b y next yr ill read this and laugh at how naive i was...but i dunno this is my opinion right now. I dont wanna be bitter and cynical towards all men just cuzi got hurt once. Instead im just gunna let it make me more careful next time. im just gunna pick wisely and remember my worth b4 i give my heart away. but i wont hold back once i find the guy God has for me. i will love like i have never b4. no matter if its the 2nd..or 1st or 4th time...cuz its a NEW relationship and a new chance at a successful one.
so ok..im gunna go to bed lol
GnigHT!