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I hate girls that hate other girls. Or who say, "oh, girls don't like me," as they giggle and flip their hair towards the first boy they see. Or who say all their friends are boys. Fucking bitches. Just say what you actually mean. You have low self esteem and you feel the need to have the undivided attention of every guy you know. AND SO, you have a hard time getting along with other girls because your need to compete with every female on some level has destroyed any possibility of a friendship, plus your attention whoring ways probably annoy all those more secure women around you who are tired of you bringing up your breasts/how ugly you are (smile, giggle giggle)/your new belly button ring/insert something to draw sexual attention here. And these women are always quick to blame other women for being so catty and gossipy and mean.
Women are always going to have a harder time being friends than guys because we have been placed in a position in society where we must compete, BECAUSE OF MEN. Men are the ones who placed the beauty standard so high that most of us spend our days being jealous of other women's physical features. Men have made the glass ceiling so low, that women must work against each other for that one business position available for a women to have so the board of directors do not seem...sexist. Men have made it impossible for women to be seen as anything but sexual creatures and so we gals have either completely denied our sexuality in order to fool the men into thinking we're one of them, or we have embraced it to the point that we practically whore ourselves out for "respect."
But here we are, gals. It's 2008 and feminism is dead because women can vote and abort their fetuses (although that may change) and so we are completely and totally equal. All we need to work on now is making sure every guy in our group of friends thinks about us while they whack off at night.
What a fucking shame.
The sad thing is, I know what it's like for women to not like you. Women don't like me, normally. I can't start a conversation with another female for the life of me, but put me in front of a guy and I can generally find something to talk about. I'm not bragging, it's the most lonely experience. I see women around campus, and I want them to know they're beautiful, and smart, and capable and witty. I want them to know they are better than the cheap orange tans, the misogynistic boyfriends, the forced interest in weddings and babies. I would enjoy nothing more but to be surrounded by women of all different backgrounds and just being able to have a discussion where we all encourage one another and support each other. Where we can remind each other that we need to stick together in order to achieve our full potential in this world. And yet, I'm stuck with this personality that seems to allow me great social skills with men, but atrociously awkward interactions with other females.
It just makes me sad.
God, the next rise in feminism cannot start soon enough.
Women are always going to have a harder time being friends than guys because we have been placed in a position in society where we must compete, BECAUSE OF MEN. Men are the ones who placed the beauty standard so high that most of us spend our days being jealous of other women's physical features. Men have made the glass ceiling so low, that women must work against each other for that one business position available for a women to have so the board of directors do not seem...sexist. Men have made it impossible for women to be seen as anything but sexual creatures and so we gals have either completely denied our sexuality in order to fool the men into thinking we're one of them, or we have embraced it to the point that we practically whore ourselves out for "respect."
But here we are, gals. It's 2008 and feminism is dead because women can vote and abort their fetuses (although that may change) and so we are completely and totally equal. All we need to work on now is making sure every guy in our group of friends thinks about us while they whack off at night.
What a fucking shame.
The sad thing is, I know what it's like for women to not like you. Women don't like me, normally. I can't start a conversation with another female for the life of me, but put me in front of a guy and I can generally find something to talk about. I'm not bragging, it's the most lonely experience. I see women around campus, and I want them to know they're beautiful, and smart, and capable and witty. I want them to know they are better than the cheap orange tans, the misogynistic boyfriends, the forced interest in weddings and babies. I would enjoy nothing more but to be surrounded by women of all different backgrounds and just being able to have a discussion where we all encourage one another and support each other. Where we can remind each other that we need to stick together in order to achieve our full potential in this world. And yet, I'm stuck with this personality that seems to allow me great social skills with men, but atrociously awkward interactions with other females.
It just makes me sad.
God, the next rise in feminism cannot start soon enough.