About friending
...if I friend you don't feel obligated to friend me back if you do that's great if not that's fine too, I'm harmless I usually just stalk random peoples journals for a while and then I move on. I'm an obsessive compulsive commenter so don't mind that either, if it bothers you just leave me a comment & I'll stop. If you friend me more than likely I'll friend you back. On to defriendig there are three basic reasons that I would defriend someone, 1) you're on my shit-list 2) you just generally don't post or we don't have much in common or 3) I'm cutting down my f'list which would basically mean I would make a post saying no hard feelings but...