letting go... or, they grow up so fast!
my best friend is moving in with her girlfriend.
i love her girlfriend, very much... and i love my best friend more than anything!! and i told her i'm happy for her... but deep down in my gut, some little monster started making noises...
they've been together since july... strike one.
the last girl my bestest girl moved in with... was awesome. until my girl moved in with her and she became an emotionally abusive manipulating bitch. ruining my girl's life for about 2 years...strike two.
my girl's bipolar... and not really treating it the best she can. she's finally aware of it, and accepts it... but she's not so keen on actually being aggressive with any kind of treatment. AND she's seasonally effected... january and february are the worst times for her. she's more emotional and more vulnerable in those months. i know cause i'm the same way... and i'm afraid she's doing this for a quick fix. or even worse... she'll blow up at the first little problem and ruin something that could've been fantastic for her.
i've watched my girl bounce from lame to crazy over the years. she's dated some intense bombs and wackjobs like you wouldnt believe. i'm very afraid that she's staying with this girl... because she's nice. yeah, her girlfriend's smart, sweet, stable, funny... but more often than not, my girl calls me with all of the little nagging thoughts in her mind, about it just not being right...
am i over-reacting? am i being too protective? do i have ANY business saying something to my girl?
i've got some time... her girlfriend has to be out of the place she's in by the end of the month (hence the timing on her asking my girl to move in with her) but my girl's decided to move in a little later...
::sigh::
ps, i start my new job tomorrow, front desk at a real estate office. after the first week of training, i'll have TONS of free time to dick around online... ! the girl i'm taking over for...she asked me if i used facebook... cause i was gonna need something to kill the time! haha.
i love her girlfriend, very much... and i love my best friend more than anything!! and i told her i'm happy for her... but deep down in my gut, some little monster started making noises...
they've been together since july... strike one.
the last girl my bestest girl moved in with... was awesome. until my girl moved in with her and she became an emotionally abusive manipulating bitch. ruining my girl's life for about 2 years...strike two.
my girl's bipolar... and not really treating it the best she can. she's finally aware of it, and accepts it... but she's not so keen on actually being aggressive with any kind of treatment. AND she's seasonally effected... january and february are the worst times for her. she's more emotional and more vulnerable in those months. i know cause i'm the same way... and i'm afraid she's doing this for a quick fix. or even worse... she'll blow up at the first little problem and ruin something that could've been fantastic for her.
i've watched my girl bounce from lame to crazy over the years. she's dated some intense bombs and wackjobs like you wouldnt believe. i'm very afraid that she's staying with this girl... because she's nice. yeah, her girlfriend's smart, sweet, stable, funny... but more often than not, my girl calls me with all of the little nagging thoughts in her mind, about it just not being right...
am i over-reacting? am i being too protective? do i have ANY business saying something to my girl?
i've got some time... her girlfriend has to be out of the place she's in by the end of the month (hence the timing on her asking my girl to move in with her) but my girl's decided to move in a little later...
::sigh::
ps, i start my new job tomorrow, front desk at a real estate office. after the first week of training, i'll have TONS of free time to dick around online... ! the girl i'm taking over for...she asked me if i used facebook... cause i was gonna need something to kill the time! haha.