The Bucket List
Thought I've been percolating ever since Brendan died: Is it crass to have a bucket list of people? It's a well established thing now to have bucket lists of experiences. But I find myself now mentally thinking of the people I've known and what I'd feel if one of us passed without us ever seeing each other again, ranging from "it would be unfortunate" to "I've already accepted we will probably never see each other again" to "I would never forgive myself". I'm aware this is morbid. Brendan was a "never forgive myself".