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I see all these posts about love. Oh i haven't hooked up with this person in forever, oh im not as happy as i was before when i hung out with this person. Oh my life is terrible because i did the wrong thing with this person. I am not you people, but i know what i've felt... and what i've experienced and i think that we all might be a little too young to talk about love.
Before you talk about the love of your life, or the love you lost think about what love truly is. Think about parents who would willingly, and in a second give up their lives so that their children may have a good life. About men and women who's spouses have cancer, or aids and they know they might lose them at any second or that they may become disgustingly horrid looking, or might need assistance doing everything, but they can't imagine what their life would be without seeing this person for as many seconds of the day as they can so they devote their lives to supporting them. Think about people who loved so strongly that when their loved ones die they are hurt so much that they can never live the same again, never remarry don't even change the way they acted since when that person was there because to imagine them not being a part of their lives would destroy them. Or those who love so much and lose, that they cannot handle their own lives without that person and they too die.
Try and sense the pain, suffering, work, and LOVE that people like these put into their relationships and then try and see how this compares to your feelings....
and just think about it before you cry about your loss or heartache over love.
Or at least try and find that you share some of these or maybe different but equally strong feelings before you talk about love...
Before you talk about the love of your life, or the love you lost think about what love truly is. Think about parents who would willingly, and in a second give up their lives so that their children may have a good life. About men and women who's spouses have cancer, or aids and they know they might lose them at any second or that they may become disgustingly horrid looking, or might need assistance doing everything, but they can't imagine what their life would be without seeing this person for as many seconds of the day as they can so they devote their lives to supporting them. Think about people who loved so strongly that when their loved ones die they are hurt so much that they can never live the same again, never remarry don't even change the way they acted since when that person was there because to imagine them not being a part of their lives would destroy them. Or those who love so much and lose, that they cannot handle their own lives without that person and they too die.
Try and sense the pain, suffering, work, and LOVE that people like these put into their relationships and then try and see how this compares to your feelings....
and just think about it before you cry about your loss or heartache over love.
Or at least try and find that you share some of these or maybe different but equally strong feelings before you talk about love...