She put it so well...
"Love,
What is it about love that makes everyone go so mad?
I mean it is a continuous cycle,
People fall in and out of love daily!
There are some people who are easily persuaded
They are the ones who have no clue what they actually want or what they are looking for; and , therefore usually pick the scumbags who aren't worth shit.
The people who don't know how to love or show affection are usually the most confused.
They wouldn't know love if it came up and smacked them across the face.
Most of the time, they are the ones who just want a fuck buddy!
Then there are the people who are actually head over heels in love!
They love everything about their partner and know that that is who they want to spend the rest of their lives with.
Then you have the rest of us!
The people who want and try so hard to be loved, to find that special someone, but it just doesn't happen.
We are always the people who get fucked over, the people who get dumped out of the middle of nowhere!
We are the ones who are careful about who we pick b/c we don't want to end up feeling that way once, twice, or however many times that feeling comes!
We are the people who have good hearts, but never seem to find another like ourselves.
So this is to all who feel the same way:
Good things come to all who wait!!
Love will come....
Love will find a way!!!!"
~Deidre Harmon, one of the most awesome redheads I know.
I thought the problems were over. I was hoping a friend was wrong. But after recent developments, I'm starting to think that maybe this friend was right. How am I going to trust if I'm being lied to? How am I going to love if I'm not going to be loved? How can I give the world if I'm not being given even a blade of grass in return? A relationhip involves trust, honor, communication, loyalty, and respect. If certain things keep happening, then I can't continue on with this. If I can't trust, honor, communicate with, and respect you, how can I be loyal to you?
Please don't make me second guess everything, my Mr. Wonderful.
What is it about love that makes everyone go so mad?
I mean it is a continuous cycle,
People fall in and out of love daily!
There are some people who are easily persuaded
They are the ones who have no clue what they actually want or what they are looking for; and , therefore usually pick the scumbags who aren't worth shit.
The people who don't know how to love or show affection are usually the most confused.
They wouldn't know love if it came up and smacked them across the face.
Most of the time, they are the ones who just want a fuck buddy!
Then there are the people who are actually head over heels in love!
They love everything about their partner and know that that is who they want to spend the rest of their lives with.
Then you have the rest of us!
The people who want and try so hard to be loved, to find that special someone, but it just doesn't happen.
We are always the people who get fucked over, the people who get dumped out of the middle of nowhere!
We are the ones who are careful about who we pick b/c we don't want to end up feeling that way once, twice, or however many times that feeling comes!
We are the people who have good hearts, but never seem to find another like ourselves.
So this is to all who feel the same way:
Good things come to all who wait!!
Love will come....
Love will find a way!!!!"
~Deidre Harmon, one of the most awesome redheads I know.
I thought the problems were over. I was hoping a friend was wrong. But after recent developments, I'm starting to think that maybe this friend was right. How am I going to trust if I'm being lied to? How am I going to love if I'm not going to be loved? How can I give the world if I'm not being given even a blade of grass in return? A relationhip involves trust, honor, communication, loyalty, and respect. If certain things keep happening, then I can't continue on with this. If I can't trust, honor, communicate with, and respect you, how can I be loyal to you?
Please don't make me second guess everything, my Mr. Wonderful.