Crap! I'm having mixed feelings about Logan Huntzberger!
I love you more than I can possibly express! *ROFLs crazily* Don't tell me anything - my Gilmore Girls was pre-empted by MD Terp basketball so I have to tape the re-broadcast Saturday night.
As far as the low sex drive, I feel you, babe. I get the low drive and feeling guilty and being annoyed when it comes up. And poor Biz - I wanted always when we started dating! Unfortunately, I think mine is attributable to the Zoloft, which is doing an amazing job of keeping me sane. I think the sanity is more important in the long run, but I still feel badly for him.
It's hard to find a balance. Until you feel more balanced with work and being a Mom you won't be able to find balance in the bedroom.
I couldn't wait to have sex and I didn't even make it the full 6 weeks, but after that (knowing I could do it again) the leaky boobs and exhaustion slowed things down. It's hard to feel sexy while wearing breast pads and having a stomach that is "softer" than it used to be.
Tackle one thing at a time. I think you're on the right track, you're doing a few small things for you and that will make you feel more like the old you. Keep talking about it with Punk. The more you talk the better.
Give youself a break, it hasn't been all that long since you had Lilia. But I know you will find your balance and things will become more "normal" again.
I've heard that a teeny-tiny dose of testosterone helps. It's apparently why menopausal women are insatiable, because they haven't got as much estrogen and more than enough testosterone. Maybe that's why they get cranky too....;)
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I love you more than I can possibly express! *ROFLs crazily* Don't tell me anything - my Gilmore Girls was pre-empted by MD Terp basketball so I have to tape the re-broadcast Saturday night.
As far as the low sex drive, I feel you, babe. I get the low drive and feeling guilty and being annoyed when it comes up. And poor Biz - I wanted always when we started dating! Unfortunately, I think mine is attributable to the Zoloft, which is doing an amazing job of keeping me sane. I think the sanity is more important in the long run, but I still feel badly for him.
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I couldn't wait to have sex and I didn't even make it the full 6 weeks, but after that (knowing I could do it again) the leaky boobs and exhaustion slowed things down. It's hard to feel sexy while wearing breast pads and having a stomach that is "softer" than it used to be.
Tackle one thing at a time. I think you're on the right track, you're doing a few small things for you and that will make you feel more like the old you. Keep talking about it with Punk. The more you talk the better.
Give youself a break, it hasn't been all that long since you had Lilia. But I know you will find your balance and things will become more "normal" again.
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