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[casey1979]

i have this odd fear that this baby is going to take away from me in a negative way. like, keep me from being ME. i guess it's a struggle for moms to be their own selves apart from being just a mom. some women just want to be mom's but i dont want to just be a mom. someone asked me today how my baby was doing and i was like, "um, i dunno. i can't

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[sarakenobi]

you can have as many tattoos as you want and I'm thinking big earrings too as long as baby doens't pull on them, but that doesn't mean you can't wear them when you AREN'T around baby. because there will be times when you get to go out!!! I plan on more tattoos (since I only have one) after the baby is born and I see nothing wrong with that. sure your life is going to change, and its not all welcome, but really? I don't think it will be as bad as you are thinking. I think that baby does become part of your identity but not erase who you are, if you don't let it :)

[casey1979]

yeah i'm planning on getting more. and maybe even gaging my ears up a couple more notches (they're at 0's now) and getting my nose pierced again. i'm just overreacting haha. thanks :)

[sarakenobi]

OMG YOU CAN'T GET PIERCINGS YOU ARE GOING TO BE A MOM!!!!!!1111

[casey1979]

I know! what will it tell my child??? differences are to be cursed and spat upon! Not for the pure of heart! Kill all piercers KILL!!!

[sarakenobi]

the nerve.