Sexuality Headcanon Meme
The Easy Part
What is your…
1. Name: Rufus ShinRa
2. Age: 27
3. Sex: ♂
4. Gender Identity: Male
5. Sexual Orientation: It would be a stretch to say I was bisexual, but I take on the same approach to private affairs as I do business. If I find myself interested in a offer, I will pursue it.
The Functional Part
6. Let’s talk virginity. Have you lost yours? If yes, how was the experience? If no, how do you feel about it?
Sixteen, with a more experienced woman. It was, if anything, something to remember.
7. Are you sexually active? How much so? Are you comfortable with your level of sexual activity?
Not at this time. Even before Geostigma there were much more important things to deal with, like the end of the world.
8. Do you masturbate? How often and, if applicable, to what?
It is a natural thing to do, but less so than others. Having a terminal disease tends to kill one's sex drive.
9. Promiscuity: How many sexual partners have you had? Ideally, would you get around more/less if you could? Do you have strong feelings about others’ promiscuity/lack thereof?
No more than twelve, closer to eight or nine, but there were always those unmemorable one night stands I may be forgetting to add to the total. I don't have any partners currently as I mentioned before, and would be lying to say that I do not want to have sex...So I the answer to the second question would have to be yes, I would appreciate having some sort of sex life at the moment.
Thirdly, I care little about what other people do with their life and time. Next question.
10. Safe sex: Do you practice it? Do you know how?
I would be a fool not to. A STD would likely kill me at this point with everything else and a child would merely be a target for whoever wants my head at the time. (Not that I would not trust the Turks to protect anything of mine. Quite the opposite.)
11. Do you now have or have you ever had an STD? Have you ever gotten or gotten someone else pregnant? If yes to either, how did this affect you? How anxious do these risks make you about sex?
No and no.
12. Let’s be frank: How good are you in bed? How good do you think you are? How comfortable are you with your sexual performance?
I know what I'm doing, and I know what I am doing very well. Practice and good teachers helped, one could say.
The Fantasy Part
13. Physically speaking, what do you find attractive in a potential sex partner? Do you consider yourself attractive?
I can and do appreciate beautiful things, including people. Being well groomed and looking good is as much of a sign of power as money itself, and it is as much as fact that how a person looks affects if someone will trust them or not. But such is off topic. Yes, I do consider myself attractive, for the most part. Oozing alien rash is sure to scare most away, and I blame them not for it.
14. What about mentally/emotionally? What kind of attitude or personality turns you on? Why? Do you consider your personality attractive?
Additude is rather important. Being able to hold one's own and being able to bring something to the table is just as attractive as physical looks. As for myself...I will allow you to decide such.
15. Do you prefer to be on the top or the bottom or neither? Are you generally dominant, submissive, or neither? How does this relate to your personality out of bed, if at all?
You would be hard pressed to get me to submit. Even if I did, it would be the choice I had planned on all along. I would say it reflects who I am rather well.
The important thing is to remember this: One can be in control in either situation, as long as you hold all of the cards.
16. How important is your partner’s satisfaction to you and why? Are you needy/demanding/giving/etc.? Is romance or emotional connection important to you in sex?
A few years ago, my answer might of not been the same, but a partner that reacts well to you increases the pleasure for both parties. I am very demanding, as expected, as for a connection, it is not important for sleeping with someone in most situations.
17. Are you vanilla or kinky? If the former, how comfortable with/aware of non-vanilla sex are you? If the latter, what are your major kinks? How did you discover them, and how do you feel about them?
Next question.
18. What turns you off? Why?
Whining, by gods. If there is something wrong do something about it.
19. How active is your fantasy life? How often/how vividly do you fantasize about sex? Describe a fantasy situation for you.
Active enough. And I believe it would not be such if I told you about it, now wouldn't it?
Some Gritty Details Part
20. Talk about your sexual awakening. How old were you when it happened? Who/what was the first thing that aroused you? How did it affect you emotionally?
Pinpointing such is quite the task. I grew up in the high life, which is just as shameless as the lowlife can be. I would say about fourteen, if I had to pick any year that stood out in my mind.
21. Have you ever done/fantasized about anything sexually that you’re earnestly ashamed of? What was it? Would you do it again?
I don't see any point in shaming myself about my sex life or thoughts. There are other much more important things I am sure people would point out first. 'Rule by fear', etc. You know the drill.
22. Have you ever committed a sex crime? Have you ever been the victim of one? In either case, if yes, how did this affect you?
No and no. I am a businessman, not a slum lord.
23. Is there anything about your sex life or sexual preferences that you would never tell anyone? How sexually open/repressed are you in general? Why?
Most to all have no business knowing about that. It is not something I would bring up to anyone and everyone.
24. How do you feel about sex, morally speaking? Beyond the basics, are there any sexual areas - homosexuality, prostitution, whatever - that you have strong, moral reactions to? Where do those come from?
Morally? It is a need, it is for pleasure, it can be used as a tool, it is part of humanity that exists as much as we do, vices and protests about it included. And as I said before. What another does with their time and life concerns me not, much less their sexual habits.
25. If you could change one thing about your sex life, would you, what would it be, and why?
I don't see anything necessary to change. If I did, it would be worked toward and done, just as I do with the rest of my life.
What is your…
1. Name: Rufus ShinRa
2. Age: 27
3. Sex: ♂
4. Gender Identity: Male
5. Sexual Orientation: It would be a stretch to say I was bisexual, but I take on the same approach to private affairs as I do business. If I find myself interested in a offer, I will pursue it.
The Functional Part
6. Let’s talk virginity. Have you lost yours? If yes, how was the experience? If no, how do you feel about it?
Sixteen, with a more experienced woman. It was, if anything, something to remember.
7. Are you sexually active? How much so? Are you comfortable with your level of sexual activity?
Not at this time. Even before Geostigma there were much more important things to deal with, like the end of the world.
8. Do you masturbate? How often and, if applicable, to what?
It is a natural thing to do, but less so than others. Having a terminal disease tends to kill one's sex drive.
9. Promiscuity: How many sexual partners have you had? Ideally, would you get around more/less if you could? Do you have strong feelings about others’ promiscuity/lack thereof?
No more than twelve, closer to eight or nine, but there were always those unmemorable one night stands I may be forgetting to add to the total. I don't have any partners currently as I mentioned before, and would be lying to say that I do not want to have sex...So I the answer to the second question would have to be yes, I would appreciate having some sort of sex life at the moment.
Thirdly, I care little about what other people do with their life and time. Next question.
10. Safe sex: Do you practice it? Do you know how?
I would be a fool not to. A STD would likely kill me at this point with everything else and a child would merely be a target for whoever wants my head at the time. (Not that I would not trust the Turks to protect anything of mine. Quite the opposite.)
11. Do you now have or have you ever had an STD? Have you ever gotten or gotten someone else pregnant? If yes to either, how did this affect you? How anxious do these risks make you about sex?
No and no.
12. Let’s be frank: How good are you in bed? How good do you think you are? How comfortable are you with your sexual performance?
I know what I'm doing, and I know what I am doing very well. Practice and good teachers helped, one could say.
The Fantasy Part
13. Physically speaking, what do you find attractive in a potential sex partner? Do you consider yourself attractive?
I can and do appreciate beautiful things, including people. Being well groomed and looking good is as much of a sign of power as money itself, and it is as much as fact that how a person looks affects if someone will trust them or not. But such is off topic. Yes, I do consider myself attractive, for the most part. Oozing alien rash is sure to scare most away, and I blame them not for it.
14. What about mentally/emotionally? What kind of attitude or personality turns you on? Why? Do you consider your personality attractive?
Additude is rather important. Being able to hold one's own and being able to bring something to the table is just as attractive as physical looks. As for myself...I will allow you to decide such.
15. Do you prefer to be on the top or the bottom or neither? Are you generally dominant, submissive, or neither? How does this relate to your personality out of bed, if at all?
You would be hard pressed to get me to submit. Even if I did, it would be the choice I had planned on all along. I would say it reflects who I am rather well.
The important thing is to remember this: One can be in control in either situation, as long as you hold all of the cards.
16. How important is your partner’s satisfaction to you and why? Are you needy/demanding/giving/etc.? Is romance or emotional connection important to you in sex?
A few years ago, my answer might of not been the same, but a partner that reacts well to you increases the pleasure for both parties. I am very demanding, as expected, as for a connection, it is not important for sleeping with someone in most situations.
17. Are you vanilla or kinky? If the former, how comfortable with/aware of non-vanilla sex are you? If the latter, what are your major kinks? How did you discover them, and how do you feel about them?
Next question.
18. What turns you off? Why?
Whining, by gods. If there is something wrong do something about it.
19. How active is your fantasy life? How often/how vividly do you fantasize about sex? Describe a fantasy situation for you.
Active enough. And I believe it would not be such if I told you about it, now wouldn't it?
Some Gritty Details Part
20. Talk about your sexual awakening. How old were you when it happened? Who/what was the first thing that aroused you? How did it affect you emotionally?
Pinpointing such is quite the task. I grew up in the high life, which is just as shameless as the lowlife can be. I would say about fourteen, if I had to pick any year that stood out in my mind.
21. Have you ever done/fantasized about anything sexually that you’re earnestly ashamed of? What was it? Would you do it again?
I don't see any point in shaming myself about my sex life or thoughts. There are other much more important things I am sure people would point out first. 'Rule by fear', etc. You know the drill.
22. Have you ever committed a sex crime? Have you ever been the victim of one? In either case, if yes, how did this affect you?
No and no. I am a businessman, not a slum lord.
23. Is there anything about your sex life or sexual preferences that you would never tell anyone? How sexually open/repressed are you in general? Why?
Most to all have no business knowing about that. It is not something I would bring up to anyone and everyone.
24. How do you feel about sex, morally speaking? Beyond the basics, are there any sexual areas - homosexuality, prostitution, whatever - that you have strong, moral reactions to? Where do those come from?
Morally? It is a need, it is for pleasure, it can be used as a tool, it is part of humanity that exists as much as we do, vices and protests about it included. And as I said before. What another does with their time and life concerns me not, much less their sexual habits.
25. If you could change one thing about your sex life, would you, what would it be, and why?
I don't see anything necessary to change. If I did, it would be worked toward and done, just as I do with the rest of my life.