Oct 05, 2010 20:22
hello. :c I'm feeling pretty sucky and frustrated about something and I just - I just need to rant.
So lately one of my friends is acting really bitchy and mean and superior (not particularly towards me, but mostly to my friends) and I have no idea why she's acting like this. I know she's really paranoid about losing friends and she always gets into a strop if she has to sit by herself (in maths mostly; there are four of us who sit together and this year there are only threes so one of us has to sit out and it's FINE for us, just not for her :/) or refuses to talk about something (or let us talk about something) if we were involved in it and she wasn't.
There are about eight of us in this 'group', and we're all really worried. Lola moved to Cumbria at the end of last year and she's (let's call her O) acting like she and Lola were OMG BESSFRENS and nobody loved her or misses her like she did. Lola comes down from Cumbria every four weekends and two weekends ago we had a sleepover and then O got mad about a text from Naomi's boyfriend and stormed out of LOLA'S house without saying a proper goodbye. And basically she's just really jealous.
And lately she's being such a bitch to Naomi and behind her back. Naomi's not the slimmest girl in the world and O makes these horrible comments like "Ugh, can you imagine Naomi dancing? What a horrible thought." and "Don't tell Naomi about the zumba class, I really don't want to feel sick every Tuesday morning." and I just can't deal with her fucking prissiness and acting like she's all so much prettier and better than all of us.
She's invited me, Lucy and Lola to Bath for a day, and like I said there are about eight of us, and I said "why just us three?" and she went "you three get on" and it's like we ALL get on, it's YOU who doesn't get on with the others.
And basically this needs to be sorted out but I have no idea how to sort this out without hurting her feelings (because normally she's so, so nice and she is my friend) and I'm so confused and angry.