been doin some thinking
During work today I was doing some thinking. I dont know how many of you actually read my Livejournal, but a couple of entrys back, I posted a long-ass entry about the will of a person to forgive. Well...I still stand by that. More than ever. Forgiving is one of, if not, THE most important quality of a person anyone can ever have. EVER...period. I cannot stress it enough.
With that being said, this entry goes out to all of you. Every single one of you. Yes, you, reading these words right now, literally everyone who reads this. Whoever is reading this right now, I want you to pay attention to what you are reading. Take a second to think, how many people are you holding a grudge against? Why? For some stupid shit that happened in the past? Because your boyfriend associated with another girl? Because your friend ditched you at some mall or whatever? Because your buddy said something that offended you, maybe?
Here are some words of wisdom: get over it. Ill say it again...GET OVER IT. If theres one thing I learned in life, its that shit happens, and you can't let it bother you your whole goddamn life. Enjoy what you have, and deal with the negatives. If you hold grudges for stupid shit that might have happened between you and someone else, you might want to re-think about why exactly you are doing it. How is it going to help in any way shape or form? Does holding grudges make everything better all of a sudden? No, as a matter of fact, I think holding grudges for stupid fucking shit that you can normally deal with is the most ignorant thing to do. Forgive and forget. Thats the most anyone can ever do to make things better.
This is not an angry entry whatsoever, so I hope no one is taking this personally, or anything like that. Its just a really, really strong opinion I have, and I think every one of my friends should take a moment and think about it.
With that being said, this entry goes out to all of you. Every single one of you. Yes, you, reading these words right now, literally everyone who reads this. Whoever is reading this right now, I want you to pay attention to what you are reading. Take a second to think, how many people are you holding a grudge against? Why? For some stupid shit that happened in the past? Because your boyfriend associated with another girl? Because your friend ditched you at some mall or whatever? Because your buddy said something that offended you, maybe?
Here are some words of wisdom: get over it. Ill say it again...GET OVER IT. If theres one thing I learned in life, its that shit happens, and you can't let it bother you your whole goddamn life. Enjoy what you have, and deal with the negatives. If you hold grudges for stupid shit that might have happened between you and someone else, you might want to re-think about why exactly you are doing it. How is it going to help in any way shape or form? Does holding grudges make everything better all of a sudden? No, as a matter of fact, I think holding grudges for stupid fucking shit that you can normally deal with is the most ignorant thing to do. Forgive and forget. Thats the most anyone can ever do to make things better.
This is not an angry entry whatsoever, so I hope no one is taking this personally, or anything like that. Its just a really, really strong opinion I have, and I think every one of my friends should take a moment and think about it.