YOU.
If you're trying to guilt-trip me, or-all the more bizarrely-guilt-trip my husband: what gall. If you're trying to beg us for forgiveness after what you pulled: what gall.
Here's a hint: When you go out of your way to alienate people, they're not going to be any too quick to welcome you back. And here's another: Ten days falls under "too quick."
You made your bed. Sleep in it. Come back when you've done some growing up.
ETA: Guilt-trip. Big one. I ended up outright saying "come back when you've done some growing up."
As to what the reply to that was? Individual in question's self-entitlement, self-absorption, general cluelessness, and lack of any sense of personal accountability? Confirmed.
A real friend would not demand that I ditch a personal project on their behalf in order to "prove" myself. Just saying.
Here's a hint: When you go out of your way to alienate people, they're not going to be any too quick to welcome you back. And here's another: Ten days falls under "too quick."
You made your bed. Sleep in it. Come back when you've done some growing up.
ETA: Guilt-trip. Big one. I ended up outright saying "come back when you've done some growing up."
As to what the reply to that was? Individual in question's self-entitlement, self-absorption, general cluelessness, and lack of any sense of personal accountability? Confirmed.
A real friend would not demand that I ditch a personal project on their behalf in order to "prove" myself. Just saying.