Alright, still alive and kicking
Apparently it's been already 3 years since I last wrote anything. It's a long time and I think I should do a quick summing up:
- I moved to Japan for 3 months in summer 2012 and meanwhile the girl I had had a fling with and of whom I wrote about in my recent entries made new friends and fell in love with one of them and totally forgot about me.
- However, I WAS in Japan, so being surrounded by its awesomeness and wonderful people, I eventually got over it and moved on.
- But I couldn't find a job there, so I had to come back to Finland...
- Eventually got my old job back at the Finnish Railways VR and found a beautiful two room apartment at the city center of Tampere.
- Started weight-loss plan and it worked.
- Started dating a friend of a friend whom I had flirted with at every possible houseparty, and then we finally got together but it lasted only six months.
- Six months after that I started dating one of our railway station's guards, but it only lasted six months too.
- (Is six months some kind of a curse to me now or what? :D )
- It's been many months now and this year I have had no desire to find a new mate or even have a family - possibly ever. I don't know how long this will last, but it feels kinda good. No man (or woman), no cry. More time just for myself.
- Got a wonderful sphynx cat and she's just enough of a life companion.
- However, recently I have found myself drooling and hovering over certain J-rock darlings, especially Kenzo and Ruka. So I guess little by little I'm getting my old self back, but as a stronger, wiser and more stable version? Maybe. Who knows. :D
Feoklista, my kitty, cursing at the city pigeon at our balcony:
https://www.facebook.com/laura.k.palander/videos/vb.584193955/10152931801203956/?type=3
Hopefully I can be more active now, and I probably will be, as every now and then I need a place to let off some steam considering Japan and its boys. xb