So what are everyone's life themes here? My main one is aesthetic pursuits, and my secondary theme is fallibility... Which is apparently one of the toughest combinations. I was surprised when I was told that. I actually exclaimed, "wow, that sucks!" But it makes sense. I thought my secondary theme was emotionality or loser, but I was wrong.
Here's an explanation of all the different life themes, in case you haven't been able to figure out yours. It's kind of tricky though. Sometimes it ends up being the opposite of what you think it would be.
http://www.gnosticallyspeaking.com/themes