As for rejection, it's always hard to deal with that. No matter how much I try to prepare myself for it, it stings and it causes me to withdraw for a while. I just try to deal with it the best way I can and not to let it get me down. I don't get rejected that often actually. One is because I don't ask much, and also because of my meek manners, I got brushed off or ignored a lot when I was younger. The thing for me is that I go through all of those scenarios in my head (more like a flash after countless times) every time before I asked for help, so it sort of felt like I have already been rejected, then I asked again.
The situation with your aunt does sound a bit strange, but I guess it's too soon to jump to conclusion just from a card. It's natural I think to be reluctant to let our guard down, given that we are in the type of society where the overriding principle is everyone for themselves.
I really hope that that things improve for you. *hugs* Thanks! :) I am not in a really bad state actually. The fact that I can write this out from such a calm and objective point of view indicates a lot of progress from a few years ago when I was very angry and resentful (amongst other things) concerning these memories. I hope your week is going well too. *hugs back*
I don't get rejected that often actually. One is because I don't ask much, and also because of my meek manners, I got brushed off or ignored a lot when I was younger. The thing for me is that I go through all of those scenarios in my head (more like a flash after countless times) every time before I asked for help, so it sort of felt like I have already been rejected, then I asked again.
The situation with your aunt does sound a bit strange, but I guess it's too soon to jump to conclusion just from a card. It's natural I think to be reluctant to let our guard down, given that we are in the type of society where the overriding principle is everyone for themselves.
I really hope that that things improve for you. *hugs*
Thanks! :) I am not in a really bad state actually. The fact that I can write this out from such a calm and objective point of view indicates a lot of progress from a few years ago when I was very angry and resentful (amongst other things) concerning these memories. I hope your week is going well too. *hugs back*
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