[ SECRET POST #1180 ]

[technophile]

⌈ Secret Post #1180 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

101.

Comments

[fscom]

107. http://i43.tinypic.com/2l9m6af.jpg

[iiiskaaa]

I wish I knew what fandoms this person is in. (Not that it makes much of a difference - there's been at least one or two people like this in every fandom I've had anything to do with.)

[fscom]

Seriously. Fortunately the fandom I'm in only has one person like this but they're pretty bad-- their personal journal is filled with passive-aggressive snit fits, pity parties, and obnoxious comment fishing about how ~boo hoo no one reads my fics ever please give me comments or i will hate myself forever~ Ugh. Stfu.

[iiiskaaa]

Hahaha, are you in my fandom?

[fscom]

I am, actually. So you probably know who I'm talking about. :p

[iiiskaaa]

Yeah, I think I do.

[fscom]

Yeah, I could name about five in my main fadom right off the bat. I was just reading it ticking down the list like "yep, yep, yep, yep" but I'm sure they're not talking about the same person(s) as me at all. There's just a lot of people like this out there.

[masked_creator]

People like who you're describing are definitely a pain to deal with in fandom. I avoid them like the plague.

[fscom]

Kind of off topic, but every time this secret said 'You lie', my mind imminently replaced it with someone shouting 'Objection!'.

That is all.

[oddrid]

I thought of Joe Wilson. OH, SOUTH CAROLINA.

[soledad_moon]

Haha word. :)

[fscom]

Let me guess. This person is on your f-list? Do you consider it a lie when you behave sweetly to her face then take your repressed rage to FS? Worth considering.

Beyond that, in my experience these types are rarely conscious liars. Usually they're delusional hypocrites--they really do believe that they're considerate, gifted, etc.

not OP

[fscom]

I know who the secret is about and I know the OP. No, OP does not have the secret subject on her flist. She's not a hypocrite.

OP of 107

[fscom]

Actually, no, she isn't. We just happen to share a fandom and she ignores and deletes all concrit.

I've never lied to her about how I felt about what she does, either. She just refuses to pay any attention.

I'm not the only person who has tried to help her improve, but she will have nothing of it.

This won't magically make her change her ways, but it helped me vent and I am happy about it. I doubt she'll ever see this, nor would she care if she did.

[soymade]

Dang.

Way to make me appreciate my fandom friends more.

[paytofay]

Joe Wilson is that you bb????