On gossip...
...I know we all love to have our gossip time. In fact some of our interactions with other people are just gossip(nothing else that one might have in common with that particular individual). This is fine as long as it's done all in good fun.
But really you all(and myself) really need to think about what will happen when that piece of gossip escapes our lips and is let loose on the world. Most of the gossip is done where multiple conversations are going on. So even if the person you are saying it to and understands it to the extent that they can repeat it accurately(oh wait another tangent) the person 10ft away only half listening won't.
Remember that what you say will be warped. Misunderstood, misinterpreted,mangled, mauled and general not the same as when you thought it.
Think about what you are about to say will affect the person about whom you're saying it. When it is something that change their relationships with people. Something that could affect reputations, remember that everything you say about someone will be warped.
I have a friend. I heard something. I really don't want to have to cut a bitch(not the friend but who ever started or is the cause of this something). This is a very good friend. They've helped me in small ways that were the final touch to fixing big things. They do not deserve this shit.
To those that keep passing things along that are negative, can harm the reputation, estrange friendships, STOP IT. Even if you "didn't think it could do any harm" that really means you didn't think it through.
kkthnxla~
"Sober"
I don't wanna be the girl who laughs the loudest
Or the girl who never wants to be alone
I don't wanna be that call at four o'clock in the morning
'Cause I'm the only one you know in the world that won't be home
Aahh, the sun is blinding
I stayed up again
Oohh, I am finding
That's not the way I want my story to end
[Sober Lyrics On http://www.elyricsworld.com/ ]
I'm safe
Up high
Nothing can touch me
But why do I feel this party's over?
No pain
Inside
You're my protection
But how do I feel this good sober?
I don't wanna be the girl who has to feel the silence...
The quiet scares me 'cause it screams the truth
Please don't tell me that we had that conversation
When I won't remember, save your breath, 'cause what's the use?
Aahh, the night is calling
And it whispers to me softly, "come and play"
Aahh, I am falling
And if I let myself go, I'm the only one to blame
I'm safe
Up high
Nothing can touch me
But why do I feel this party's over?
No pain
Inside
You're like perfection
But how do I feel this good sober?
I'm comin' down
Comin' down
Comin' down
Spinnin' round
Spinnin' round
Spinnin' round
Looking for myself.. Sober
Comin' down
Comin' down
Comin' down
Spinnin' round
Spinnin' round
Spinnin' round
Looking for myself.. Sober
When it's good, then it's good, it's so good, 'till it goes bad
Till you're trying to find the you that you once had
I have heard myself cry
Never again
Broken down in agony
And just trying to find a friend
I'm safe
Up high
Nothing can touch me
But why do I feel this party's over?
No pain
Inside
You're like perfection
But how do I feel this good sober?
But really you all(and myself) really need to think about what will happen when that piece of gossip escapes our lips and is let loose on the world. Most of the gossip is done where multiple conversations are going on. So even if the person you are saying it to and understands it to the extent that they can repeat it accurately(oh wait another tangent) the person 10ft away only half listening won't.
Remember that what you say will be warped. Misunderstood, misinterpreted,mangled, mauled and general not the same as when you thought it.
Think about what you are about to say will affect the person about whom you're saying it. When it is something that change their relationships with people. Something that could affect reputations, remember that everything you say about someone will be warped.
I have a friend. I heard something. I really don't want to have to cut a bitch(not the friend but who ever started or is the cause of this something). This is a very good friend. They've helped me in small ways that were the final touch to fixing big things. They do not deserve this shit.
To those that keep passing things along that are negative, can harm the reputation, estrange friendships, STOP IT. Even if you "didn't think it could do any harm" that really means you didn't think it through.
kkthnxla~
"Sober"
I don't wanna be the girl who laughs the loudest
Or the girl who never wants to be alone
I don't wanna be that call at four o'clock in the morning
'Cause I'm the only one you know in the world that won't be home
Aahh, the sun is blinding
I stayed up again
Oohh, I am finding
That's not the way I want my story to end
[Sober Lyrics On http://www.elyricsworld.com/ ]
I'm safe
Up high
Nothing can touch me
But why do I feel this party's over?
No pain
Inside
You're my protection
But how do I feel this good sober?
I don't wanna be the girl who has to feel the silence...
The quiet scares me 'cause it screams the truth
Please don't tell me that we had that conversation
When I won't remember, save your breath, 'cause what's the use?
Aahh, the night is calling
And it whispers to me softly, "come and play"
Aahh, I am falling
And if I let myself go, I'm the only one to blame
I'm safe
Up high
Nothing can touch me
But why do I feel this party's over?
No pain
Inside
You're like perfection
But how do I feel this good sober?
I'm comin' down
Comin' down
Comin' down
Spinnin' round
Spinnin' round
Spinnin' round
Looking for myself.. Sober
Comin' down
Comin' down
Comin' down
Spinnin' round
Spinnin' round
Spinnin' round
Looking for myself.. Sober
When it's good, then it's good, it's so good, 'till it goes bad
Till you're trying to find the you that you once had
I have heard myself cry
Never again
Broken down in agony
And just trying to find a friend
I'm safe
Up high
Nothing can touch me
But why do I feel this party's over?
No pain
Inside
You're like perfection
But how do I feel this good sober?