Discussion: Fat-admirers/chubby-chasers
I recently joined a forum focused on the love of BBW. It's a really active site with lots of lovely women and appreciative but respectful men. In the forum meant for ladies to discuss topics unique to a woman's experience someone started a discussion about opinions regarding self-proclaimed fat admirers and fetishists. I thought my reply would be a good post to share here.
I've encountered both types: admirers and fetishists.
I don't like when someone ignores the special little things about my body and my personality that make me unique and focuses on my fat alone. I've noticed that fetishists are typically rather disrespectful. We are simply objects to such men. Nothing more than a tool for release. I definitely don't want to be a value-less object to someone.
That being said, I've met quite a few men who are self-proclaimed admirers who just find plumper women more attractive than skinny women. They still see me as a person with other unique, beautiful, attractive qualities. These are the kinds of men I want in my life.
I've encountered both types: admirers and fetishists.
I don't like when someone ignores the special little things about my body and my personality that make me unique and focuses on my fat alone. I've noticed that fetishists are typically rather disrespectful. We are simply objects to such men. Nothing more than a tool for release. I definitely don't want to be a value-less object to someone.
That being said, I've met quite a few men who are self-proclaimed admirers who just find plumper women more attractive than skinny women. They still see me as a person with other unique, beautiful, attractive qualities. These are the kinds of men I want in my life.