Re: Things you wouldn't admit unanon
anonymous
March 2 2014, 21:07:24 UTC
ayrt
Of course, that's fine.
[Spoiler (click to open)]I use it for stress relief too, mostly. What I normally do is go into my bedroom, draw the curtains and put on some music or something mindless on iPlayer. Then I sit down on my bed and begin to touch myself on the area around my labia majora before beginning to touch my vulva. This is usually enough to make me physically aroused but I don't think about anything to get me in the mood.
When it's comfortable to do so, I begin to touch my clitoris and move my fingers between that and the area around my clitoris. With my other hand, I might start to touch my breasts or other sensitive areas of my body, like the inside of my thighs or elbows before fingering my vagina. It normally takes a few minutes doing that before I have an orgasm.
I used to have a vibrator I could use for that but now I live in a shared flat with thin walls & my income is pretty tight, so I've not had any battery-operated assistance in a while. I found that worked much more efficiently (I could have an orgasm very quickly) but that often I'd still feel a little keyed-up after that and not as relaxed as when I did it by hand. I don't know if this is just me getting older or if taking things slowly and doing it by hand does make a difference, but in general, doing it without a vibrator/other sex toy is more relaxing.
Re: Things you wouldn't admit unanon
anonymous
March 4 2014, 06:37:01 UTC
DA
[more fapping talk]I'm not asexual and do often have sexual fantasies when I wank, but depending on the day I can think of it as either maintenance (like brushing teeth/showering/exercise) OR as sex. Definitely stress relief sometimes too. Relaxing before sleep etc.
Anyway, I have noticed that difference with fapping by hand vs vibrator, too. I love my vibrator dearly, and have kind of gotten out of practice with doing it by hand (ow, my wrist, lol), but when I go back to it now and then I often find that it's a deeper, more satisfying, more diffuse orgasm that I get out of it. I'm not sure why; I almost never actually penetrate my vag with anything, even fingers, when I wank, so it's not that. Maybe something more organic about it than with mechanical assistance.
I ain't giving up my vibrator any time soon, but the difference is really interesting.
(now, if only I could figure out how to orgasm from manual stimulation during sex, or oral sex, or anything...)
Of course, that's fine.
[Spoiler (click to open)]I use it for stress relief too, mostly. What I normally do is go into my bedroom, draw the curtains and put on some music or something mindless on iPlayer. Then I sit down on my bed and begin to touch myself on the area around my labia majora before beginning to touch my vulva. This is usually enough to make me physically aroused but I don't think about anything to get me in the mood.
When it's comfortable to do so, I begin to touch my clitoris and move my fingers between that and the area around my clitoris. With my other hand, I might start to touch my breasts or other sensitive areas of my body, like the inside of my thighs or elbows before fingering my vagina. It normally takes a few minutes doing that before I have an orgasm.
I used to have a vibrator I could use for that but now I live in a shared flat with thin walls & my income is pretty tight, so I've not had any battery-operated assistance in a while. I found that worked much more efficiently (I could have an orgasm very quickly) but that often I'd still feel a little keyed-up after that and not as relaxed as when I did it by hand. I don't know if this is just me getting older or if taking things slowly and doing it by hand does make a difference, but in general, doing it without a vibrator/other sex toy is more relaxing.
*triple-checks anon*
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[more fapping talk]I'm not asexual and do often have sexual fantasies when I wank, but depending on the day I can think of it as either maintenance (like brushing teeth/showering/exercise) OR as sex. Definitely stress relief sometimes too. Relaxing before sleep etc.
Anyway, I have noticed that difference with fapping by hand vs vibrator, too. I love my vibrator dearly, and have kind of gotten out of practice with doing it by hand (ow, my wrist, lol), but when I go back to it now and then I often find that it's a deeper, more satisfying, more diffuse orgasm that I get out of it. I'm not sure why; I almost never actually penetrate my vag with anything, even fingers, when I wank, so it's not that. Maybe something more organic about it than with mechanical assistance.
I ain't giving up my vibrator any time soon, but the difference is really interesting.
(now, if only I could figure out how to orgasm from manual stimulation during sex, or oral sex, or anything...)
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