A lil' December update
I must be in the wrong profession if the two kinds of people I can't stand nowadays tend to be rednecks and obsessive gamers.
All I do lately is run around from lawyer to lawyer trying to get answers about every little legal question in the Navy. It moves at a snail's pace. I think I might try to contact OutServe legal again. I just run around Norfolk's DSO. I talked to a new lieutenant today--he seemed okay. He didn't like how incredibly wordy my style was for my amendment to my grievance. I wrote G...'s yesterday. I may have gone a little too far in trying to address and push back against every one-sided angle he presented in his rebuttal, however. Still have to write one for L... That should be delightful. I have a lot of shade to throw on that one.
But for the time being I'll focus on skimming down my first one and follow the lieutenant's advice.
On the love front, I seem to be doing better. I broke the dry spell with a dude named David who subsequently deleted me from grindr. I think he has a boyfriend and was screewing around behind his back.
Then I told Jerrom my crazy story. He found it entertaining and we got together as well. He's a lot to handle to present it ... in a non-sexual way.
I like Jerrom. He's a chill guy and a good cuddle buddy. I actually like falling asleep in his arms. I saw him again on Tuesday. Fantastic sex again. Very smart too. Works as a P.A. at one of Norfolk's local hospitals. I don't believe he's the settling-down type from how I took our last conversation. He told me the story of the naval officer he moved up here with and how he left him for his chief.
It's difficult to hear so many stories like that. Everyone cheating all the time. At least this guy Jerrom is realistic. He'd rather just play the field for fun rather than engage any serious emotional commitment.
I think of Cecc a lot and how we met. How it was lousy timing for both of us and we never directly spoke to each other about how we felt. I do wonder all the time if I'll see him again. What does the Navy do to guys like us that we become so emotionally barricaded? When I left Groton, however, I was lucky to have met him. He set a good example of how to handle the Navy and come out on the winning side.
I liked how I subtly worded that last sentence. I amaze myself. 👏🏻
It may be the case that he's just another one that got away. Now if I could just stop obsessively checking his Facebook page to see if he graduated OCS.
He'll probably turn out the way I think of Jason. I'd seen on Facebook he got married to that guy Crain. Still a devilishly handsome guy. Marines ... what is about those guys?
I think I'll finish this here. I've exhausted all contemplative energy on all things romantic and legal. Time to run it out so I can have enough endurance for ... ya know, stuff I like to do. HAH
You're pretty great, Norfolk. Let's try to stay together for a while. While I contemplate trying to switch rates or service branches for my professional future.
Vive la France. Et vive la république.
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All I do lately is run around from lawyer to lawyer trying to get answers about every little legal question in the Navy. It moves at a snail's pace. I think I might try to contact OutServe legal again. I just run around Norfolk's DSO. I talked to a new lieutenant today--he seemed okay. He didn't like how incredibly wordy my style was for my amendment to my grievance. I wrote G...'s yesterday. I may have gone a little too far in trying to address and push back against every one-sided angle he presented in his rebuttal, however. Still have to write one for L... That should be delightful. I have a lot of shade to throw on that one.
But for the time being I'll focus on skimming down my first one and follow the lieutenant's advice.
On the love front, I seem to be doing better. I broke the dry spell with a dude named David who subsequently deleted me from grindr. I think he has a boyfriend and was screewing around behind his back.
Then I told Jerrom my crazy story. He found it entertaining and we got together as well. He's a lot to handle to present it ... in a non-sexual way.
I like Jerrom. He's a chill guy and a good cuddle buddy. I actually like falling asleep in his arms. I saw him again on Tuesday. Fantastic sex again. Very smart too. Works as a P.A. at one of Norfolk's local hospitals. I don't believe he's the settling-down type from how I took our last conversation. He told me the story of the naval officer he moved up here with and how he left him for his chief.
It's difficult to hear so many stories like that. Everyone cheating all the time. At least this guy Jerrom is realistic. He'd rather just play the field for fun rather than engage any serious emotional commitment.
I think of Cecc a lot and how we met. How it was lousy timing for both of us and we never directly spoke to each other about how we felt. I do wonder all the time if I'll see him again. What does the Navy do to guys like us that we become so emotionally barricaded? When I left Groton, however, I was lucky to have met him. He set a good example of how to handle the Navy and come out on the winning side.
I liked how I subtly worded that last sentence. I amaze myself. 👏🏻
It may be the case that he's just another one that got away. Now if I could just stop obsessively checking his Facebook page to see if he graduated OCS.
He'll probably turn out the way I think of Jason. I'd seen on Facebook he got married to that guy Crain. Still a devilishly handsome guy. Marines ... what is about those guys?
I think I'll finish this here. I've exhausted all contemplative energy on all things romantic and legal. Time to run it out so I can have enough endurance for ... ya know, stuff I like to do. HAH
You're pretty great, Norfolk. Let's try to stay together for a while. While I contemplate trying to switch rates or service branches for my professional future.
Vive la France. Et vive la république.
🇫🇷🇺🇸🇫🇷🇺🇸🇫🇷🇺🇸