The only thing that comes to mind is that you have to talk to him. Even if he's doesn't talk about his emotions, you have to at least let him know how much you're hurting. If he doesn't know, then he's just going to continue on with what he's doing, and things may only get worse between you two. I'm sure it's easier said than done, but he's been your friend for 7 years. What kind of friendship do you have if you can't be honest with him?
this kinda happened to me a few years ago. I even got my boy to come ou t- took him to his first gay club. Well I got over that lifestyle of drinking and clubbing and staying up and out til 3am... but he still hasnt. We dont see each other but maybe once a month and we used to be roommates. But when we do see each other, it means so much more and we have so much more fun b/c we do realize we miss each other. He doesnt often return my calls or IMs, but he's also now my hairdresser - so I see him there a lot. We have known each other for.. about 12years.
I dont have much advice except... he hasnt forgotten about you. He is just in a new phase of his life and now taht he's comfortable with his sexuality - he wants to share it. :p
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He doesnt often return my calls or IMs, but he's also now my hairdresser - so I see him there a lot.
We have known each other for.. about 12years.
I dont have much advice except... he hasnt forgotten about you. He is just in a new phase of his life and now taht he's comfortable with his sexuality - he wants to share it. :p
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