Our choice
The talk with Linda went about how I thought it would. She half listened and said sorry about her outburst, claimed she never said I was stupid....although she did admit to saying I was crazy. Gave me a print out of my job description and weaseled her way out of the last half of our "meeting lunch" ( read here that we went to the Quizno's two doors down late, late, late in our day and was interupted by another co-worker). Like I said I pretty much figured it would go that way. She's so busy trying to juggle the crazy ass parts of her life that she pretty much thinks anything she says or does is justified by her over busy schedule, her husband living in another city and her aging mother demanding more and more of her time.
I don't know how I feel about the whole thing.
Rob and I had a talk when I got home. I am encourage by his concern for me, I was a bit worried he might be being driven so crazy by our finances that he would tell me just to stick it out. I told him we had a choice at this point in our lives together. We can choose to focus on our finances and I can just "eat" the stress for a while longer or we can focus on procreating and I can work a bit less or take a different job ( Rob is pushing for Comcast, of course). I'm going to talk to Linda about taking on someone else to manage the place, but not until she comes back from her vacation next weekend to see her husband. I think spending time with him mellows her out a bit. We will see.
The baby buns are growing like crazy!! I'm still having a bit of a hard time figuring out what sex they are. I think Opal looks like a girl, so does Juniper and possibly Peanut and Onyx but Chumba looks like a boy. We will just have to see I suppose. They will be a month old in a few days. It's hard to believe.
I've been going to the Chiropractor recently for low back pain. I am only allowed ten visits by the insurance. After telling Leah about all the things the Chiro said she said I should get the x-rays and see someone else for a second opinion. That will eat at my allowed visits though......I don't know what to think. I just want the pain to stop!
I don't know how I feel about the whole thing.
Rob and I had a talk when I got home. I am encourage by his concern for me, I was a bit worried he might be being driven so crazy by our finances that he would tell me just to stick it out. I told him we had a choice at this point in our lives together. We can choose to focus on our finances and I can just "eat" the stress for a while longer or we can focus on procreating and I can work a bit less or take a different job ( Rob is pushing for Comcast, of course). I'm going to talk to Linda about taking on someone else to manage the place, but not until she comes back from her vacation next weekend to see her husband. I think spending time with him mellows her out a bit. We will see.
The baby buns are growing like crazy!! I'm still having a bit of a hard time figuring out what sex they are. I think Opal looks like a girl, so does Juniper and possibly Peanut and Onyx but Chumba looks like a boy. We will just have to see I suppose. They will be a month old in a few days. It's hard to believe.
I've been going to the Chiropractor recently for low back pain. I am only allowed ten visits by the insurance. After telling Leah about all the things the Chiro said she said I should get the x-rays and see someone else for a second opinion. That will eat at my allowed visits though......I don't know what to think. I just want the pain to stop!