Short Update & A Rant
Hey! I've been incredibly boring lately and don't have a lot to say, but I will update about my life in a few days when the PITT computer labs open again because it's spring break right now and I'm not having much opportunity to use the internet. I just wanted the world to know I was okay.
Also, I need to vent about how ignorant people are regarding asexuality...
On the bus today there was this couple talking really loudly about their friend who it sounds to me is asexual because they said that she had only had sex once and has been in a relationship with this guy for almost 2 years and they've never "done anything" (whatever that means). But of course then they start saying how it's "like a seventh grader's relationship, it's not like they're intimate at all or do anything, seriously, there must be something wrong with them." Because you know, the only way to have an "intimate" relationship with somebody is to be sexual, and everybody who isn't sexual must be fucked up.
...Or it's just the people who think that who are fucked up. Seriously people, I thought by the time you're in your late twenties/early thirties (that's how old these people looked) that you would have learned there is a lot more to a good relationship than just sex!
Also, I need to vent about how ignorant people are regarding asexuality...
On the bus today there was this couple talking really loudly about their friend who it sounds to me is asexual because they said that she had only had sex once and has been in a relationship with this guy for almost 2 years and they've never "done anything" (whatever that means). But of course then they start saying how it's "like a seventh grader's relationship, it's not like they're intimate at all or do anything, seriously, there must be something wrong with them." Because you know, the only way to have an "intimate" relationship with somebody is to be sexual, and everybody who isn't sexual must be fucked up.
...Or it's just the people who think that who are fucked up. Seriously people, I thought by the time you're in your late twenties/early thirties (that's how old these people looked) that you would have learned there is a lot more to a good relationship than just sex!