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Question:
1. "Do we ever get to really know a person?"
2. "Do we ever really mean what we say to someone?"
3. "Are feelings really feelings or are they thoughts of feelings that we have been told about so much that we just accept?"
Answer:
1. Do we ever really get to know a person? I personally think that it is impossible. As much as we all like to claim we do, we really do not. There is always that one little thing that someone is hiding from everyone and everything. There is always that little deep dark secret that no one likes to share. And besides we as humans a lot of the times like to pretend and make things up. It's part of our nature. We like to say we are listening but are we really? We have selective hearing, we nod and say "hum" to reasure the person who is speaking that we are listening to them. But the funny thing is they know we are not listening becuase they do the same thing to other people, but yet we are STILL tricked by it. We also live short lives. We have way more things to do than to sit down with everyone we know and anilize everything that they think, say and touch. Besides people change all the time.
2. Do we say what we mean to people? Or are we just saying things to either one. tick them off or two. just have them shut up and please them so we can get out of there? Enough said....
3. The Feelings question,....I need to think more about...because I am still really puzzled to the fact that "are they just feelings that we have heard and just say they are feelings"......
1. "Do we ever get to really know a person?"
2. "Do we ever really mean what we say to someone?"
3. "Are feelings really feelings or are they thoughts of feelings that we have been told about so much that we just accept?"
Answer:
1. Do we ever really get to know a person? I personally think that it is impossible. As much as we all like to claim we do, we really do not. There is always that one little thing that someone is hiding from everyone and everything. There is always that little deep dark secret that no one likes to share. And besides we as humans a lot of the times like to pretend and make things up. It's part of our nature. We like to say we are listening but are we really? We have selective hearing, we nod and say "hum" to reasure the person who is speaking that we are listening to them. But the funny thing is they know we are not listening becuase they do the same thing to other people, but yet we are STILL tricked by it. We also live short lives. We have way more things to do than to sit down with everyone we know and anilize everything that they think, say and touch. Besides people change all the time.
2. Do we say what we mean to people? Or are we just saying things to either one. tick them off or two. just have them shut up and please them so we can get out of there? Enough said....
3. The Feelings question,....I need to think more about...because I am still really puzzled to the fact that "are they just feelings that we have heard and just say they are feelings"......