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I got molested at work, bastard mofo who is always staring at me, wanting my attention couldn't help it one day and came over and patted me on the shoulders from behind, with both hands, long lingering pats, I could feel the disgusting warmth of his hands, five times. Grooooosssss!!! He fancies himself a Svengali, he is to manipulative to do anything too overt but this was pretty bad. Even if it was, I still wouldn't take it higher up, because you get INVOLVED with the person if you get into some battle with them. I don't want to have jack to do with him, if we had been alone, I would have fucked him up for sure. Oh god, I have to indulge myself here, I would have done this, exactly:
"HEY, back the f up mofo, who the f do you think you're touching you cunt?". I would have punched him. If someone is within viewing vicinity, I would have just pushed him.
This was my first instinct because I've been battling this dude for over a year. Subtle sarcasm, looking at me, fake friendliness when others are around. I told my boyfriends at work about it, and all three said he was chill, he touched everyone, etc etc. I expected this, because he is a manipulator, he prides himself on it privately I know it, so he spends time thinking about ways to manipulate and fly just undrr radar, so i counter this statement with "So, wait a minute, even YOU wouldn't touch me like that here at work, and weve walked down empty streets at midnight together, what grown man in this day and age touches ANY female at work???" than they pause to think, and say, you know, you're right. I just told them so they can keep an eye on him when he is around me, he'll notice this, and that blocks some of his access to me. Another thing, this will get back to him, and he'll be PISSED I'm maing a false accusation against him. My boyfriends are horrible though, they are making fun of me by coming behind me EVERYDAY and touching my shoulders. Young male humor, thatt they are making light of something that is pretty tender to a female makes the whole situation much lighter.
Inspired by my young men, I make myself extra pretty and ignore that dumbass Svengali wannabe totally now. Oh god, he is so pissed, we only lap over ONE HOUR or so in a day, and he is so aggravated by me that he manages to cram in all this harassing in that hour, how can that not be obvious, this is where he is making his fatal error, he has to choose a more accessible victim. Idiot.
"HEY, back the f up mofo, who the f do you think you're touching you cunt?". I would have punched him. If someone is within viewing vicinity, I would have just pushed him.
This was my first instinct because I've been battling this dude for over a year. Subtle sarcasm, looking at me, fake friendliness when others are around. I told my boyfriends at work about it, and all three said he was chill, he touched everyone, etc etc. I expected this, because he is a manipulator, he prides himself on it privately I know it, so he spends time thinking about ways to manipulate and fly just undrr radar, so i counter this statement with "So, wait a minute, even YOU wouldn't touch me like that here at work, and weve walked down empty streets at midnight together, what grown man in this day and age touches ANY female at work???" than they pause to think, and say, you know, you're right. I just told them so they can keep an eye on him when he is around me, he'll notice this, and that blocks some of his access to me. Another thing, this will get back to him, and he'll be PISSED I'm maing a false accusation against him. My boyfriends are horrible though, they are making fun of me by coming behind me EVERYDAY and touching my shoulders. Young male humor, thatt they are making light of something that is pretty tender to a female makes the whole situation much lighter.
Inspired by my young men, I make myself extra pretty and ignore that dumbass Svengali wannabe totally now. Oh god, he is so pissed, we only lap over ONE HOUR or so in a day, and he is so aggravated by me that he manages to cram in all this harassing in that hour, how can that not be obvious, this is where he is making his fatal error, he has to choose a more accessible victim. Idiot.