I don't get it...
I have an online friend who is a subbie, we like to discuss D/S topics. She *knows* I'm a subbie and still she always addresses me "may I please say hello."
I don't really understand this mentality anyway, I don't believe subs are automatically in a lower class to those who call themselves doms. (I say this because the real doms are sometimes few and far between) I am not certainly automatically submissive...it has to be the right person to bring it out of me. This automatic pigeonholing seems to be the way of Gorean and what have you, but even if she were of that persuasion, I'm in the same class!
I have had this happen quite a few times and I just don't understand it.
I don't really understand this mentality anyway, I don't believe subs are automatically in a lower class to those who call themselves doms. (I say this because the real doms are sometimes few and far between) I am not certainly automatically submissive...it has to be the right person to bring it out of me. This automatic pigeonholing seems to be the way of Gorean and what have you, but even if she were of that persuasion, I'm in the same class!
I have had this happen quite a few times and I just don't understand it.