Re: I'll tell you why we feel the way we do, MatteyeslastglanceFebruary 6 2004, 07:23:02 UTC
1. Pam Anderson disgusts me. She's so fake, I could never go for her, and even she is unhappy and has had how many husbands?
2. Yeah, some guys don't see past outside beauty, and some don't catch when you flirt with them.. but you're acting like all guys should realize that a girl likes them and should ask them out right away. You're acting like most guys in our school have brains enough to take action in a relationship, when most (including me) don't. We're not female - we don't notice things that you ladies do. Guys don't get "feelings" twards a girl, they get to know her and if she's girlfriend material, ask her out. Thats why girls need to take the initiative (that word has way too many I's). There are so many girls I know that just sit around and complain about how no one wants to be with them and how they'll always be alone. Yeah, I know this is gonna sound harsh, but get over it, girls. Make yourself desireable, and guys will notice you in a different light. Don't just sit around and wait for the right one to come, take action. Search, go to parties, talk to people, stop being so fucking shy. And notice the guys that you usually don't notice.
Don't base everything on looks, you say? Thats the same for you. Most girls seem to base their standards on looks and if the personality isn't the best, thats fine. At least they'll have a guy, right? Where does it say that the person you're with has to be attractive to anyone else? As long as they're nice and caring, they're worth it. We won't judge you on your looks, as long as you don't judge us on ours. Its that simple. And you won't end up an "Eleanor Rigby" if you aren't "Pam Anderson" - at least have the personality of a decent, non-soul-sucking human being, be a little more outgoing, and trust me.. guys will be looking for girls like you in no time.
Re: I'll tell you why we feel the way we do, Mattmononoke_lynnFebruary 7 2004, 01:37:10 UTC
It's easier said then done, Matt. Remember Jyoshu? You and everyone else think's he's ugly. But I am very attracted to him - looks AND personality. He's really nice and sweet and funny and half Japanese, etc. So yeah.
2. Yeah, some guys don't see past outside beauty, and some don't catch when you flirt with them.. but you're acting like all guys should realize that a girl likes them and should ask them out right away. You're acting like most guys in our school have brains enough to take action in a relationship, when most (including me) don't. We're not female - we don't notice things that you ladies do. Guys don't get "feelings" twards a girl, they get to know her and if she's girlfriend material, ask her out. Thats why girls need to take the initiative (that word has way too many I's). There are so many girls I know that just sit around and complain about how no one wants to be with them and how they'll always be alone. Yeah, I know this is gonna sound harsh, but get over it, girls. Make yourself desireable, and guys will notice you in a different light. Don't just sit around and wait for the right one to come, take action. Search, go to parties, talk to people, stop being so fucking shy. And notice the guys that you usually don't notice.
Don't base everything on looks, you say? Thats the same for you. Most girls seem to base their standards on looks and if the personality isn't the best, thats fine. At least they'll have a guy, right? Where does it say that the person you're with has to be attractive to anyone else? As long as they're nice and caring, they're worth it. We won't judge you on your looks, as long as you don't judge us on ours. Its that simple. And you won't end up an "Eleanor Rigby" if you aren't "Pam Anderson" - at least have the personality of a decent, non-soul-sucking human being, be a little more outgoing, and trust me.. guys will be looking for girls like you in no time.
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Remember Jyoshu? You and everyone else think's he's ugly. But I am very attracted to him - looks AND personality. He's really nice and sweet and funny and half Japanese, etc. So yeah.
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