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i had to cancel two of my massage clients yesterday which really sucked but one had a bad reaction to her flu shot and i can take no chances with making her worse moving all of her lymph around. the second, i yelled at her until she cried at work Saturday night and then when my boss said - hey you may want to lighten up - i sailed into him about it and he then backed off.
she is not only my client she is my friend and she did something very very stupid. and when a friend does somethign like that, that could kill her you have to drive your point across.
we will call her C. C went out Friday night with another person i know from my past job, which is never good, but alas i can not dare say how i know her b/c of confidentiality and such. so they went out drinking. (now mind you i am not against drinkning i just don't do it myself) C then stayed at W's house for two hours when they got back from an all nighter. C decided to drive home (this is what really gets me pissed off) C hits a deer on the way home right near the middle school. C is fine her car is jacked up. her biggest concern was what to tell the insurance company so they won't arrest her for DUI. she didn't even call them yet. oh yeah i forgot she was also on her cell phone.
i sailed into her about drinking and driving. her mom isn't the best role model to tell her and someone needed to. this hit too close to home for me and my past not to make her understand the consequences of what she had done. my first thought was - are you sure it was a deer you hit?!
she said yes, in the morning she went back out to see what it was and it was a deer. again i flipped out on her for htat. what if it was a person you hit and assumed in your drunken state it was a deer and you left a person to bleed to death in the street! it isn't that much of a wooded area.
then Kevin my big boss was like hey she is going to start really crying. i looked at Kevin and asked don't your kids walk to the bus stop at school? what if this had been an hour later? and it wasn't a deer she hit, would you be so lenient then? he backed off.
i love this girl, she is a friend, but she needs to undestand how stupid that choice she made was so she won't ever do it again. i told her God gave her a really scary wake up call not to ever do something that stupid again.
*pounces off soap box*
i am taking my mom to the doctor this afternoon. she has more redness up her legs with heat that has now traveled all the way up to her stomach. i am not allowed to diagnose nor could i. i am worried. the heat and redness has traveled farther near her heart. i could lie and say that it is nothing but i made her an appt this morning for this afternoon. i am worried. she got all tired on me yesterday and broke out into sweats for nothing. overheats so easily. we chilled the rest of the night (i called off a date i had with mike - my army friend). we watched the Polar Express and Madagascar. it was good just to hang out and laugh with her. i know in my heart of hearts that this is probably the last thanksgiving and Christmas we may have. so i am glad my new job doesn't start till after the holidays. wow i just really depressed myself not meaning too. i was actaully in an accomplished mood.
updated on my mom as soon as i know something.
she is not only my client she is my friend and she did something very very stupid. and when a friend does somethign like that, that could kill her you have to drive your point across.
we will call her C. C went out Friday night with another person i know from my past job, which is never good, but alas i can not dare say how i know her b/c of confidentiality and such. so they went out drinking. (now mind you i am not against drinkning i just don't do it myself) C then stayed at W's house for two hours when they got back from an all nighter. C decided to drive home (this is what really gets me pissed off) C hits a deer on the way home right near the middle school. C is fine her car is jacked up. her biggest concern was what to tell the insurance company so they won't arrest her for DUI. she didn't even call them yet. oh yeah i forgot she was also on her cell phone.
i sailed into her about drinking and driving. her mom isn't the best role model to tell her and someone needed to. this hit too close to home for me and my past not to make her understand the consequences of what she had done. my first thought was - are you sure it was a deer you hit?!
she said yes, in the morning she went back out to see what it was and it was a deer. again i flipped out on her for htat. what if it was a person you hit and assumed in your drunken state it was a deer and you left a person to bleed to death in the street! it isn't that much of a wooded area.
then Kevin my big boss was like hey she is going to start really crying. i looked at Kevin and asked don't your kids walk to the bus stop at school? what if this had been an hour later? and it wasn't a deer she hit, would you be so lenient then? he backed off.
i love this girl, she is a friend, but she needs to undestand how stupid that choice she made was so she won't ever do it again. i told her God gave her a really scary wake up call not to ever do something that stupid again.
*pounces off soap box*
i am taking my mom to the doctor this afternoon. she has more redness up her legs with heat that has now traveled all the way up to her stomach. i am not allowed to diagnose nor could i. i am worried. the heat and redness has traveled farther near her heart. i could lie and say that it is nothing but i made her an appt this morning for this afternoon. i am worried. she got all tired on me yesterday and broke out into sweats for nothing. overheats so easily. we chilled the rest of the night (i called off a date i had with mike - my army friend). we watched the Polar Express and Madagascar. it was good just to hang out and laugh with her. i know in my heart of hearts that this is probably the last thanksgiving and Christmas we may have. so i am glad my new job doesn't start till after the holidays. wow i just really depressed myself not meaning too. i was actaully in an accomplished mood.
updated on my mom as soon as i know something.