Re: If you're not together anymore.eyekeJune 16 2002, 11:49:44 UTC
Yup, exactly.
It's really hard..
the reason we're not together is because she doesn't feel that she treats me the way she needs to treat me, and that I deserve better than her. I choose to stay around, with the agreement that anything she does is okay, because she's accepted that she doesn't treat me right and she wants a break, but she can't be away from me, and I can't be away from her. So, we just spend all the time we can together, and when things get bad we take a break. At the point she decides she's ready to be with me, we'll get married.
There's a ton of stuff about her that she knows is horrible in a relationship, and she's working on it. That's the best I can ask. I've learned to accept her for who she is, and anything that gets better is just extra. She's working on doing the same thing with me, and that will help a lot. 95%+ of our fights are because we're not together, but I try to act like her boyfriend and tell her not to do something or to do something.. shrug Thanks for the advice, but it's a really complex situation Tal, too hard to explain.
It's really hard..
the reason we're not together is because she doesn't feel that she treats me the way she needs to treat me, and that I deserve better than her.
I choose to stay around, with the agreement that anything she does is okay, because she's accepted that she doesn't treat me right and she wants a break, but she can't be away from me, and I can't be away from her.
So, we just spend all the time we can together, and when things get bad we take a break. At the point she decides she's ready to be with me, we'll get married.
There's a ton of stuff about her that she knows is horrible in a relationship, and she's working on it. That's the best I can ask. I've learned to accept her for who she is, and anything that gets better is just extra. She's working on doing the same thing with me, and that will help a lot.
95%+ of our fights are because we're not together, but I try to act like her boyfriend and tell her not to do something or to do something.. shrug
Thanks for the advice, but it's a really complex situation Tal, too hard to explain.
As always, I do take it into consideration.
John
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