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May 25, 2009 14:22


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anonymous May 25 2009, 14:16:56 UTC
I've harboured on-off feelings for someone on my f'list for over three years, now. We've become very close of late, though I don't think we'll ever be as close as I'd like, but she's going away this summer and I'd give anything not to lose her. :/

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anonymous May 25 2009, 14:46:58 UTC
Is she coming back? Can't you tell her how you feel?

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anonymous May 25 2009, 14:59:32 UTC
She is coming back. I'm just not sure things will be the same after.
At the moment, I don't think telling her is worth the risk of ruining our friendship, and I think she would at least be disappointed if she knew.

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anonymous May 25 2009, 15:08:00 UTC
Do you think she'll find a girlfriend or boyfriend abroad? I'm sure you'll still be friends when she comes back, regardless. Maybe she wouldn't be disappointed? Maybe she'd be flattered?

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anonymous May 25 2009, 15:15:20 UTC
She might - I'd try to be happy for her. She and I have both had bad experiences with long-distance relationships before, and I think she would be disappointed - we have a very good friendship at the moment and I don't want her to think she has to try and help me get over it.

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anonymous May 25 2009, 15:26:38 UTC
You think she'd be disappointed by another long distance relationship?

I...think I know who you are. If you are who I think you are, I wouldn't worry. She clearly cares for you very much. Your friendship will easily survive her time away. Perhaps it will be stronger for it?

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anonymous May 25 2009, 15:36:49 UTC
I don't think she'd want one, and I think she'd be disappointed if she knew how I felt.

I do hope you're right, regardless of identity :) Thank you.

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