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So, things went up for a while. We had a really great night the other night- and Tab started talking about what had been wrong for the past two weeks, which we needed- but suddenly I felt attacked and she felt misunderstood and I walked out at five o'clock in the morning with no shoes on and I think for the first time I got how much of a process this is- how having that connection with someone and loving them that much is great, but when things go wrong they know you so well that you get hammered in your weak points. Not necessarily because they want to hurt you, but because you're both so frustrated. Things are going better now though. Things always are after we have it out- and I love her and we're working on this- my communication skills and hers and understanding.