"Marrying Outside the Faith"
Anya Krugovoy Silver
Choosing you, I forfeited my wedding crown, the thrice-
circled altar, the Slavic hymns that rise and fall at Vespers
like stippled swallows’ wings. For you, I lost the red
and liquid breath of God inside my throat. Seasons turn
differently, not marked by the altar’s changing silks,
the wooden body of Christ carried at Lent from the cross.
The kisses of forgiveness, weekly bows of lip to icon
or sudden crook to knee. Thumb and finger’s cruciform.
For me, you forfeited the splintered wedding glass and children
born into the faith with smearing of placental blood.
Choosing me, you gave up the shofar’s moan at new moon’s turn,
pockets emptied into water, the sukkah’s fruited beams,
the Hebrew prayers your great-grandfather the cantor died chanting,
God’s name bound around his wrists. Kaddish’s stoop and bend.
When curtains draw, we'll learn to move by touch and sound:
by the flame that cowls the mantel's candle, the crackle of leaves
crushed at the dimmed path's edge. We'll share bread between our teeth.
In certain Russian icons, a sheet of silver sheaths the painted wood.
But always, the artist cuts holes over Christ's face and hands,
releasing from metal those dark oval eyes, the human fingers' faithful kiss.
On this day in...
2011:
"Fingers" by Ted Hughes2010:
"Privliges (for Christina)" by Eireann Corrigan2009:
"For a Student Sleeping in a Poetry Workshop" by David Wagoner2008: Weekend, no poem
Remind us over and over that we deserve/to drink even the milk left over in the cereal bowl, to sop up/what's left on our plates with bread.