you think your love life sucks? watch this.
Click to viewand it turned into this
this opera always cheer me up.. morbidly.
hence, I am NOT going to fall for people who's going to leave me in the end any longer. Therefore I must make a criteria of the person i am dating, if they don't fall in the specifics. no thanks.
Physical:
1. Not Short
2. Fit, no need to be chiselled, but at least nice to hug.
3. Quite a looker that girls/boys will glance and flirt with him, but not drop dead gorgeous that I would look like Quasimodo.
Social:
1. Cannot be 12 years older than me, or 8 years younger than me. My preferral of age gap is my age, 4 or 8 years younger, or 4 or 8 years older. Of course someone around my age + - 4 years would be nice.
2. Not too far apart with me socially, I don't wanna date a socialite tha treats me like a chinese totok plauge, or date someone so far that I have to put in too much work to bring him on pace. sorry not being shallow, just realisitc. Of course if that person can learn fast and carry himself well, I don't mind.
3. NO CLOSET QUEENS. okay I don't wanna date someone who's too out too, but at least someone in touch with reality and practicality and wisdom to know when to be out or not.
Personality
1. Someone that is compatible with me, someone that can make me feel powerful and happy when I am around if he's my bottom. Someone who I can look up to, and someone I wanna be if he's my top.
2. Someone who's very balanced, not too idealistic that he will loathe me, and not too unethical that it creeps me out. Basically someone who avoid the blinding path of the moral good and also the dark alleys of the corrupt, and prefers to walk in the shaded light in between.
3. Friendly, Sweet, Stern, Loving, Not afraid to show what he feels.
The way he treats people/me
1. Family should always comes first for him - but I wanna be treated as his family when there's enough time. I will no longer tolerate being treated as an outsider.
2. He must be nice, and be able to calm me down or point out my mistakes when I treat people unfairly.
3. Someone who's not afraid to call me at 3 am in the morning simply if he misses me, and he's must be someone I'm not afraid to call at the same situation too.