...uhm...

[evilgrins]

Where exactly did I go wrong here?
http://sailorv61.livejournal.com/129636.html?thread=161124#t161124

Comments

[stuberyl]

The poster's response was way out of line and seems to indicate some personal problem with you, rather than with your comment in this instance.

[evilgrins]

which is odd as she and I have never really had a problem before this

[stuberyl]

Well... it's also possible that she does have a problem with you and just never let on before now.

[evilgrins]

That reeks of duplicity and I just can't see her that way.

[stuberyl]

You know her better than I do.

To my mind, though, it's not always duplicity when that happens. People just don't always tell you everything that's on their minds. And even folks that otherwise like you can have a flare-up of resentment in an emotional moment.

[evilgrins]

Maybe but there's a difference between holding back little things and hiding that you just really don't like someone. Least ways, there should be.

[evilgrins]

not really close to but have always gotten along fine before me. kind of a similar bent, she's a hugslut...which worked out fine

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[stuberyl]

This raises a few questions.

Does she not like you, or did she just lash out because she misconstrued your words?

Is this someone you're really close to? If you don't spend much time together, or don't interact very much, why would she go out of her way to let you know that she doesn't like you?

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[evilgrins]

not really close to but have always gotten along fine before me. kind of a similar bent, she's a hugslut...which worked out fine