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[prokrstn8r]

What is the difference other than non-monogamous implies no love or commitment involved?

[evilgrins]

Nonmonogamous does not mean no love, clearly as I am in love with 2 of them. It simply means I don't do 1 on 1 relationships.

Commitment? Think that's more polyamory actually.

[prokrstn8r]

What you do sure sounds like polyamory to me.

Maybe you could explain what difference you think there is?

[evilgrins]

Well, I'm seeing 3 women. Polyamory generally has the love component and the commitment too. I'm not in love with all 3 of them and we are all in an open relationship where we do what we do with each other and anyone else we like as well. Being nonmonogamous means being involved in relationship that have gone beyond the level of friendship and still be able to be involved with others as well.

Monogamy is largely a myth among the human species.

Anyone that defines this as polyamory is a numbnut, which reminds me of a funny Warlock story for another time.

[faery_c0rpse]

you must be quite the ladies man. i couldn't imagine juggling three woman, let alone one!

[evilgrins]

Nope, I've just a knack for finding women that're easy to please and cool with this sorta thing.

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If I ever found spidey draws in my size, I'd totally buy them.